Saturday, December 7, 2013
Why Kerry Washington and Dave Moscow broke up and the plight of Black college grads...
Last week, I was perusing the aisles of my local supermarket when I came upon the racks of gossip rags by the check out counters.
That's when I happened across one of the periodicals about Kerry Washington's recent wedding.
This immediately drew me to the mag 'cause I know the white elitist plan for Kerry involved her eventually marrying a white guy.
And I know what some black women are thinking while they read this...they're like, why can't Black men get over us marrying white guys?
For the record, again, I have NO problem with this, I'm simply saying that white elites have built up Kerry as the poster child for inter-ethnic relationships. Especially when it comes to black women dating and marrying white men.
So, I turned to the page about her wedding...and to my surprise, Kerry married a Black man.
And the brother's got a righteous African name too, Nnamdi Asomugha.
This brotha is a 36 year old NFL player from Louisiana who's currently a free agent.
After nodding my head in approval, I was like, wait a minute...this wasn't whitey's plan for Kerry, who was she dating before?
That's when I discovered her ex David Moscow.
Now, I've learned two facts about Dave, one, is he was an actor who's biggest claim to fame was playing a young Tom Hanks in the movie 'Big', and two, Kerry and Dave met in high school.
I also found out Dave and Kerry were engaged to be married for three years.
So I was like, what happened?
Why didn't they get married and live happily ever after?
That's when I though about a college buddy of mine, who I'll call Craig.
Craig was smitten with this blonde haired, icey blue-eyed undergrad he shared a class with.
So after Craig put the moves on her, she agreed to go out with him twice. The third time she told Craig if they wanted to be in any kind of on-going relationship, he'd have to meet her a town over.
What she was really saying is she couldn't let her friends or family see them together, cause she was ashamed of being seen with a Black man.
Craig relented. And several months later, he found out his ice princess had a white guy on the side she was seeing.
Craig finally got the gumption to let her go.
Rumor has it this woman is now married to this white guy she saw on the side, while Craig is still single and continuing to date white women.
The last story also led me to think of a black collegiate woman I knew, who I'll call Brenda.
And anyone who knew Brenda, knew she dated white guys exclusively.
And she'd met one white guy on an internet dating site who set up a time and place for them to meet.
Brenda confessed to another female friend of mine, how she was smitten with this guy's looks right off the bat.
So, after a dinner and some drinks, they wound up back at a hotel.
After they 'tripped the light fantastic', the white guy asked Brenda if she'd like anything to drink cause he was going into the lobby to get a beverage.
After she said no, this guy went into the lobby, then went to the parking garage, got in his car and drove off.
The next day, Brenda e-mailed this guy and asked him why he'd left.
The guy said, 'cause they had sex too soon.
Last I heard, Brenda was single and still dating white guys exclusively.
See a pattern here people?
Now, don't get me wrong, not ALL white people treat our kind this way.
There are exceptions where Black and white men and women date, get engaged and get married, and do live happily ever after.
I'm just saying, these instances are few and far between.
But let's get back to Kerry Washington...Kerry stated how dating 'scared' her.
But here's my question, why would dating a white guy, or the prospect of being in a relationship...especially with a white guy, or any guy for that matter, 'scare' Kerry?
That's 'cause Kerry got what I call a 'J.Lo' pulled on her.
You remember J.Lo and her liberal-minded, political activist white beau, Ben Affleck, don't ya'?
Jennifer Lopez literally referred to Ben as her 'knight in shining armor' and wrote songs about him with lyrics like, 'I love you, you're perfect'.
But when it came time for Ben to 'put a ring on it', he got cold feet and called it off.
A coupla' years later...Ben married a white girl named Jennifer, and has been with her ever since.
Now, my message to anyone who reads this, is please don't leave me comments saying all white men are not like this, I didn't say they ALL were.
I'm just relating to you how most are.
I also read about Kerry saying she wanted to keep her dating life private, this was the reason for her and Nnamdi's 'secret' wedding.
But let me tell you why Kerry married this Black man 'secretly', it's because her white fascist handlers realized they'd failed.
See, Kerry and Dave Moscow's wedding was suppose to set a precedent for a deluge of inter-ethnic weddings of white guys and black women.
There was only one problem, these same white elites have conditioned white guys into thinking of black women as sex objects, period.
Same with my friend Craig, the white elite has brainwashed whites across the board to think of us as 'sex toys'...and nothing more.
Cause you and I both know, if Kerry had married Dave Moscow, there'd have been a full page spread in every gossip mag and periodical across the country covering it.
It would have been the white wedding those white fascists hoped for.
Again though, they did their job a little too well of having us relegated to 'friends or fiancees with benefits' in the eyes of whites.
This got me thinking about the plight of Black collegiates and college grads.
Cause so many of us spend those years pursuing white dates and mates, and there's no one to tell us how the majority of collegiate Black men and women will wind up oversexed and alone at 50 thinking our college degree means we're now 'good enough' or qualified to marry whitey.
And whites know this, but ya' think they're gonna' say it to our faces?
They're gonna' enjoy us spreading our legs or unzipping our flies to fulfill whatever fantasy or fetish they've got in mind.
And you know how whites are...the more depraved the sex act, the better.
Which ultimately brings me back to the recurring theme of my Blog, and what's my Blog's theme?
That we...Black people, have lost everything to our self-hatred.
And it's time to recondition ourselves out of it...before it's too late.
And when I say we've lost everything to our self-hatred, I want you to understand, how in no way, shape or form, are we born hating ourselves or each other.
Like I've said several times, we go through a very intensive conditioning process that turns us into self-hating men and women.
And this happens over the course of decades, especially in the american school system. So it's gonna' take time to erase all the psychic damage done to us.
But each of us need to get started doing this work individually and collectively.
'Cause the real, real question still stands, and that question is: How do we heal the rift between Black men and women?
It's through meditation and reconditioning the subconscious mind.
I myself have employed methods of self-hypnosis and traditional meditation to take this challenge on.
And it's transformed my life in ways you wouldn't believe. For the first time in my life being Black doesn't feel like a burden, but a blessing.
But you can only see this after you've done the work to recondition the subconscious.
So let's all get to work.
'Cause like the old Black proverb goes, 'there ain't no justice...THERE'S JUST US'!
And like Sam Jackson said in 'Do The Right Thing', "...that's the triple truth, Ruth."