Why Kerry Washington and Dave Moscow broke up and the plight of Black college grads (Part 3)...What do Dave Moscow and Heidi Klum have in common?

David Raphael Moscow was born in New York City on November 14^th, 1971. Patricia Sterner, his mother, was raised in Murray, Utah as a mormon. Dave's father Jon Moscow, was raised in the jewish faith.

Now, even though Dave's bios say he wasn't raised in either religion, whether he knows it or not, his recent actions directly reflect these religious doctrines. Especially those of the mormon church.

For example, check out these two passages of the mormon bible:

Alma 3:6
"And the skins of the Lamanites were dark, according to the mark which was set upon their fathers, which was a curse upon them because of their transgression and their rebellion against their brethren, who consisted of Nephi, Jacob, and Joseph, and Sam, who were just and holy men."

3 Nephi 2:14-15
" And it came to pass that those Lamanites who had united with the Nephites were numbered among the Nephites; And their curse was taken from them, and their skin became white like unto the Nephites."

But I'll touch a bit more on this later...

Dave Moscow met Kerry Washington in high school and they started dating in 2002. They got engaged in October of 2004, and split in 2007.

As you can see, for three years Dave and Kerry were engaged, until Dave called the wedding off. And the reason he gave for not walking down the aisle with Kerry, was his having to deal with 'personal problems'. But a couple of years back, on September 6^th, 2014 to be exact, Dave married his fiancee Karen Riotoc.

Now, I did say I'd offer a meditative technique for the first post of the new year, but I ran into this piece of information in the last days of December. This info. prompted me to create this post's header, and after that, this post pretty much wrote itself. So to those wanting to look at my meditative technique(s) ('FTBF'...I see you!), they will indeed be in my next post...but again, I had to get this topic completed and published before I could move on.

So with all that said, I'm guessing Dave finally found a solution to whatever personal problems he'd encountered with Kerry years before. At least enough to finally commit himself to marriage.

Heidi Klum was born and raised in a town outside Cologne, Germany, and is the daughter of Günther Klum, a cosmetics company executive and Erna Klum, a hairdresser. After being convinced to enroll in a national modeling contest called 'Model 92', she was voted the winner of the pageant on April 29^th of that year. A modeling contract came with the win, which she accepted a few months after graduating high school.

Fast forward to 2003's 'GQ' Awards in London. This is where Heidi first met the singer Seal. Weeks later, they stayed in the same hotel, and upon seeing Seal in biker shorts after his gym work-out, she proclaimed that she was impressed with his 'package'. Mind you, Heidi was pregnant with another man's child at the time.

But let me tell you what Heidi was really thinking when she saw Seal.

In 2003, Heidi was facing a personal dilemma, which was her being a pregnant and unwed 'super-model'. Now, she could have gotten an abortion, but if the press got wind of it, it wouldn't have only damaged her image, but it probably would've ruined any sponsored endorsements she had at the time, or might have been able to get in the future.

So with Heidi being pregnant and unwed, she thought no white, asian, or latin man, especially one who was a rich celebrity, was gonna' accept her with another man's baby in her belly...but then she thought, a Black man probably would. And when she saw Seal, she saw the perfect victim.

Seal reportedly told a journalist, that a month into their courtship, Heidi told him she was pregnant. To which Seal replied, “Already? That's amazing.”

To which Heidi replied, “Not with you stupid.”

Seal said there was an awkward silence after that; then he replied, "It doesn't change the way I feel about you, 'cause the fact that you're here tells me you think a lot about me."

That's when Heidi knew her hunch was right.

Heidi and Seal married in 2005. He was there for the birth of Heidi's first child, Leni, and he officially adopted her in 2009.

Now, I think everyone reading this knows how this marriage ended. Basically, Heidi wound up cheating on Seal with her personal trainer. She also proudly professed to having sex with this guy while still wed to Seal. And to people who say Seal drove her away because he was some sort of control freak, I ask this: if Seal did the right thing by Heidi when she was pregnant with someone else's child, why couldn't she at least wait to give Seal a proper divorce before she hopped in bed with another man?

Well, it's the same reason Dave Moscow stated he called off his marriage to Kerry because of 'personal problems'...and the reason in this...

Neither Dave nor Heidi ever truly loved their Black partners, because they ultimately thought that as white celebrities, they were too biologically superior to Black people, to fully commit to one. And chances are, they don't know this 'consciously' themselves.

And the people Dave and Heidi chose to be with after they left Kerry and Seal are a direct reflection of that. Let me explain what I mean...

Karen Riotoc, Dave's wife, works for 'Radium One'; which is an online advertising company. And we already know that Heidi took up with a scruffy looking personal trainer. So their choices of spouses and love interests are saying that any 'working-class' white person is more valuable to them than any Black multimillionaire celebrity will ever be.

See, both Dave and Heidi plied their trades in the 'liberal arts' community, where inter-ethnic dating is a bit more acceptable. But when it came to 'settling down' with a Black person, their subconscious white supremacist mind-sets kicked in...and their Black partners got kicked out.

Now, to Black men and women reading this who consider themselves 'swirlrs', I want you especially to take notice. The reason I wrote the original post of this series was to highlight the fact that too many Black men and women, especially with college degrees, are winding up oversexed and alone at fifty after spending years being a sex toy for every white and non-Black person who comes within a foot of them.

Now, I'm not saying ALL white people are like this, but our Diaspora needs to understand that the majority of working-class and 'upper-scale' white folks will always side with the white elite's derogatory opinions of us, because the american social order benefits them most. And they'll even side with white elites while they suffer their abuses, simply because of skin color. Ditto for every kind of non-Black person.

And another message I wanna' send out to Black 'swirlrs' is this...if you've committed yourself to dating non-Black men and women, then I know nothing you'll read here is gonna' dissuade you from doing so. But for the sake of our Diaspora, you need to hold fast to this manifesto, even when the well runs dry with non-Black dates and mates. And let me explain what I'm talking about...

What I've noticed is when Black 'swirlrs' run into any kind of dry spell regarding their choices of non-Black bed partners, they tend to default to dating Black men and women again; and you/they don't realize how destructive this is to the Black Diaspora. 'Cause what ultimately happens is, when you do find a Black person to date, you'll inevitably put on your most congenial face at first. But after a week or so, you'll start treating this Black man or woman like trash, cause you never wanted to be with one of us in the first place.

And ultimately, this will result in you and that Black person breaking up. But what it does more, is dissuade Black people who genuinely want to date one of us, from dating other Black people. It reinforces in that Black person you dated and treated like crap, reasons why they should give up on their own kind, and this lessens the pool of available and 'un-jaded' Black men and women for the rest of us.

So to the Black 'swirlrs' reading this, if you find yourself without a white or non-Black person to date or fornicate with, just double or triple your efforts to find another one...AND LEAVE BLACK PEOPLE ALONE!!

Remember, you're not just hurting yourself, but the rest of us as well.

And one last message to Black 'swirlrs'...if you do wind up as one of those statistical Black men and women who are oversexed and alone at fifty after being a 'handi-wipe' for the sexual gratification of every kind of non-Black person, please don't blame this on not being able to find a 'good' Black man or woman.

What a lot of middle-aged swirlrs will think or say to themselves is, I wouldn't have wound up this way if I'd found a 'decent' Black person to be with. But the truth you're hiding from yourself is you never wanted to be with one of us anyway.

So if you find that you're drinking yourself to sleep at night, wondering why you never found Mr. or Mrs. Right to settle down with, know that it's your fault for sippin' the white fascist kool-aid that told you every kind of non-Black person was gonna' treat you better than one of your own kind.

After a decade of unzipping your fly or spreading your legs for every white, spanish, asian and american indian person you bumped into, somewhere down the line you should have realized, the overwhelming majority of these people think that's all we're good for.

And like Sam Jackson said in Spike Lee's 'Do The Right Thing': “That's the triple truth, Ruth.”

Welcome to 2016 family!

Later...

MontUHURU Mimia

Why Kerry Washington and Dave Moscow broke up (Part 2)...Dave's friend and Kerry's doting eyes...(Special Pre-Independence Day edition)

On June 5th, of 2014, at 12:22 p.m., someone claiming to be Dave Moscow's 'friend' wrote this reply to my post titled, 'Why Kerry Washington and Dave Moscow broke up and the plight of Black college grads...': 

'Wow, this was the dumbest thing I've ever read. David and Kerry's breakup had nothing to do with race. I know David and he is no "white supremacist!" They broke up cuz of Kerry's actions, which I won't mention out of respect!'

So, I responded:

'Well...since you 'know' Dave, why don't you tell me what really happened?'

And he replied:

'If they wanted it to be public info, they would have told the public. I wouldn't be just telling you, I'd be telling everyone that reads this and I can't do that. Plus, I'd be devastated if David saw it!'

Finally, I said:

'I think it's a pretty safe bet that Dave Moscow is NOT gonna' read this Blog.'

And I never heard back from Dave Moscow's 'friend' again...and I suspect I never will, here's why...   

I'd like everyone reading this post, especially Black men and women, to examine my header's triptych for a hot second. *Note: if you'd like to expand my header, you can actually click onto it. 

Do you notice any kind of pattern?

Do you notice how, in every picture, Kerry is looking directly at Dave, while Dave looks away from her?  

This reminds me of the whole 'Bennifer' debacle; a.k.a, when Jennifer Lopez (J.Ho, I mean, J.Lo) and Ben Affleck were dating. You notice how Jennifer's eyes are full of affection for Ben, and he's looking away from her...just like Dave Moscow's doing to Kerry.  

And we all know what Ben did shortly after his tryst(s) with Jen. 

What Ben and Dave have in common, is not only are their eyes looking beyond these women, but their minds are too. 

Now, Dave's 'friend' wants me to believe that Kerry committed some sort of act that jeopardized her relationship with Dave Moscow. But if you look at their pictures, you'll see the hyper-doting stares Kerry gives Dave. In the last pic of my header, the one where Kerry's wearing a white dress, she's grabbing onto Dave likes he's a life raft and she's in the middle of the ocean. With this act she's saying how she not only desperately wants to be with her white beau forever, but how she'd do anything to keep him by her side.  

So the question I'm posing is this: judging by these pictures, do you think Kerry would do anything to risk losing Dave? 

Of course she wouldn't. 

But do you think Dave's 'friend' would acknowledge that? 

Hell no!

What Dave's friend is really saying, is Dave, an upstanding, gainfully-employed, white man, couldn't possibly have been stringing Kerry along for three years of an engagement, knowing he was eventually gonna' get rid of her. 

Could he?

Ya' damn right he could...and did! 

You can see in Dave's stares away from Kerry, that he understood, this wasn't the love of his life. For Dave, Kerry was someone he knew cared enough about him not to leave, so he enjoyed this fact, while having his eyes out for other women.  

Now, addressing what this friend of Dave's says about David not being a white supremacist, well, I never said he was...consciously. Subconsciously though, Dave and Ben share the same affliction; that being, they both feel too genetically superior being white men, to marry a 'non-white' woman. And they may not know this themselves, consciously, but they sure as hell are acting it out. 

Now, when I wrote the first part of this post almost two years ago, I had no idea it would turn out to be my most popular. But what I'm hoping more than anything is this, that Black men and women got the message behind it, that we should stop behaving like sex toys, or what I like to call 'human handi-wipes' for the sexual gratification of every non-Black person.  

Too many Black men and women, especially with college degrees, are winding up oversexed and alone at fifty after spending decades being 'pleasure pumps' for every white, spanish, asian and american indian man or woman; and it's time we have some RESPECT FOR OURSELVES!

But if we really want to talk about having respect for ourselves, then we have to talk about reversing the decades of self-hating conditioning we're nearly force fed, by the white fascist american system. Especially in american schools.

'Cause Black men and women are constantly bombarded with the message that we should hate ourselves and each other, and we get this more than any other ethnic group on the planet, because we have the most genetic power to breed white people out of existence.  

So to white fascists, a Black man or woman living anywhere is a threat to them everywhere.

Now, if you're a Black man or woman reading this, whichever method you use for the riddance of this self-hatred is up to you, whether it be chanting, meditation, hypnosis...just do what works. 

And if you truly haven't got a vested interest in changing your own mind, then contribute some kind of resource to a 'home-schooling' cooperative, that is teaching our children the basics of reading, writing and 'rithmetic, without the white fascist message of self-hatred they get in mainstream american schools. This way, the next generation can reverse our Diaspora's dysfunctions, which are born of white fascism.   

Now, I'd also like to say, that what happened to Kerry Washington is not exclusively indicative of what Black female celebrities go through as a matter of course, just ask the singer Seal; he'll tell ya' I'm not lying.  

And in Seal's case, what that super-skank, I mean super-model, Heidi Klum did to him, might be even more insidious than what happened to Kerry. Let me explain...

In 2003, Heidi Klum was in a quandry. 

Heidi was pregnant with a man's baby, and was no longer in a relationship with him. Now, being that she is a white woman, who had the 'super-model' moniker to live up to, it would've been bad business for her to have a child out-of-wedlock. Mind you, she could've had an abortion, but if the media found out, it would stain her image and she might've lost valuable endorsements and other multi-media deals she was tethered to. But what Heidi knew more than anything, was that no white, spanish, or asian man with any kind of celebrity status, was gonna' marry her with some other guy's baby in her belly.

But she figured a Black man would.

Enter the celebrity singer Seal... 

Now, Heidi said she was first enamored with Seal, while they were staying in the same hotel and she saw him coming from the gym wearing biker shorts. But what she was more enamored by, was her chance to get hitched to someone with a celebrity profile that would accept her for the hussy she is, and has proven herself to be. 

She began having sex with, I mean, dating Seal immediately. 

And according to Seal, as per his explanation to a journalist, about a month after meeting Heidi, she told him she was pregnant. 

To which Seal responded, "Already? That's amazing."

And this was Heidi's reply: "Not with you, stupid."

Seal said an awkward silence arose after that; then he said, "It doesn't change the way I feel about you, 'cause the fact that you're here tells me you think a lot about me."

This was the moment Heidi realized her gamble paid off. 

Now, this is how I know the Black Diaspora, receives the same kind of self-hating (mis)education globally. See, if Seal knew his real worth, there's no way he would of took up with this skank. He probably would've still given her the whole, 'this doesn't change how I feel about you' line; and then did what any self-respecting man would've done...which is quickly phase that tramp out of his life. But because he was taught to feel inherently inferior to white people, he probably felt Heidi was doing him a favor. 

And for anyone believing the hype about Heidi breaking up with Seal because he was emotionally abusive, or some kind of control freak, I ask you; after Seal did the right thing by marrying her skank ass, knowing she was pregnant, why couldn't she at least give Seal a proper divorce before she got on the 'ho train' with her personal 'trainer'?

One thing we need to realize by Heidi's actions is this...

HEIDI KLUM NEVER LOVED SEAL!

NOT FOR A MOMENT.

She married him solely to save her reputation, and her career. 

Unfortunately for Seal, he'll be tethered to this tramp for the rest of his life behind having children with this harlot. 

Now, I remember when Seal did an interview with Tavis Smiley on PBS; he showed up after his split with Heidi wearing Black finger nail polish. This basically told the world how he was mourning. So, the real tragedy of this whole fiasco, is if Heidi wanted to reconcile with Seal, more than likely, he'd take her back. 

So ultimately, the moral of these stories and this post is, if you're a Black man or woman who's completely given up on finding a 'good' Black man or woman to date and ultimately marry; and you're hell-bent on dating and mating with anyone but one of your own kind...it's imperative that you demand respect. 

'Cause every non-Black person will see you as a prospect for fast sex, and ultimately, that's all they think we're good for. 

Now, are there exceptions to this rule? Absolutely; and are they few and far between? Again...ABSOLUTELY!

So to the Black Diaspora, I'll say, let's stop goin' out like Kerry and Seal...and let's start lookin' out for one of our own kind; 'cause contrary to popular belief, with a Black man or woman, you'll be more likely to find Mr. or Mrs. Right, and less likely to get burned by someone who views you as mr. or mrs. right now.

Later...

MontUHURU Mimia

P.S.

If you'd like to see the original post I wrote about Seal, you can do that here. 

And...

If you wanna' check out the first post I wrote about Dave Moscow and Kerry Washington, it's easy to find at the top of my 'Posts people dig most' list, or you can just click here.

Are you a sex toy for white people?

If you're a Black man or woman reading this and you've been in four or more 'intimate' relationships with white people outside of a marriage, answer these three questions for yourself honestly:

One: Have you been in five or more relationships with a white person where there was no talk of serious commitment that could lead to an engagement or marriage?

Two: Did you ever brag to a Black man or woman about how many white people you dated and how they treated you better than any brotha or sista did, while you were no longer in a relationship with any of these white people?

And Three: If you were in four or more relationships with white people, did you meet any of their relatives?

If you answered yes to the first two questions, and no to the last one, chances are, some white person is using you as their personal sex toy. And here's a little secret about us Black people, especially the college educated ones...far too many of us have become sex toys for whitey's amusement without even knowing it. 

Now, let's ask the logical question that should be on everyone's mind...why? 

Mind you, I'm only asking this question of Black men and women.  Cause there's a multitude of stats about what percentage of Black men and women are single across the board. The majority of which seem inflated to me, and this is 'cause the edicts of white fascism dictate that one way whites always get to feel better about themselves is to look at the dysfunction in the Black community. 

When any group(s) of white people are enduring a recession or a state of joblessness, they can always look at some negative stat about Black people and this keeps them feeling safely superior to us. But, whether it's organizations like the Pew Research Center or the U.S. Census Bureau, the numbered results basically look like this:

Over 60% of Black women AND men are single.

And, over 70% of Black children are born into single parent households. 

But ya' wanna' know a disturbing fact? I'm surprised these stats aren't higher; let me explain why...

An extremely critical point I keep bringing up, only because it's the most crucial one when it comes to what's really ailing the Black Diaspora, is this: If you're a Black person, ever since you've started walking, you've been taught that EVERYTHING about you is wrong. 

EVERY single history book you've read in pre, middle and high school has taught you to hate yourself and everyone who looks like you!

This is done by force feeding you a study diet of two subjects we're taught to obsess over all our lives, slavery and Martin Luther King. 

So let's break down the effect(s) of what being reared on slave narratives and MLK does to a Black person's esteem and psyche.

When you're constantly shown pictures of your people being hung, butchered, burnt at stakes and whipped to within inches of their lives, what do you think it does to a young person's mind? 

I'll tell you...it leaves a scar! This is similar to a child being traumatized in a household through constant beatings with foreign objects like belts and extension cords. 

These images of our people take a sledge hammer to our esteems, and unfortunately, the majority of Black men and women go to their graves with these scars, never realizing how they've been affected by the white supremacist conditioning they've gotten to hate themselves. 

This is why the majority of us never want to identify ourselves as Black and why we'll do anything NOT to be around Black people. And our damaged ability to love ourselves and each other help us stay in perpetual states of being a bachelor or bachelorette.   

For young Black men, study diets of slavery and MLK  nearly erase all the confidence any healthy young man needs to assert his place as a 'leader' or the head of the household in his community. Seeing his male ancestors subjugated, in chains and in perpetual states of pain, says to him he's probably doomed to fail before he starts. And in a very real way, it says, he probably will never rise above a certain lowly station in life, 'cause you come from a people that are predisposed to failure.

For young Black women, it says there's NO protection for you in this life with your man being so emasculated. There's no semblance of security, no sense of stability, emotionally, financially or otherwise. And ultimately, you'll be left to 'fend for yourself!

Now, the Martin Luther King slant on this further tells young Black men and women they should passively accept what these schools, or any other local institutions, tell them about themselves. After all, whitey and his supremacist institutions know best. (The gospel of white supremacy). It says a good Black christian doesn't bother the order of things. And if he or she does upset the status quo, it should be in an attempt to get closer to, or be more like white people; regardless of how they brutalize or murderously torture you and your community. 

And one more component of the 'Martin Luther King' doctrine is, even if you are passive and non-violent, you should EXPECT to die violently. 

Oddly enough, I think a better analogy to use concerning this topic might be the tale of the pop group 'Milli Vanilli'...Yeah, that 'Milli Vanilli'...you know, Rob and Fab who got busted for not singing on their records. I know what you're thinking...have you gone mad? But just indulge me for a sec'; you'll see it's value when I'm done.

In the early eighties, Rob Pilatus and Fab Morvan were basically homeless 'club kids' trying to forge careers as models/dancers. They were inseparable because they were both young Black men in Germany who were disowned by their parents, and both tell stories of growing up in unstable and abusive households. Rob used to tell stories of abuses he suffered at the hands of his German mother who was also a porn actress. He and Fab said when they were living on the streets they oftentimes slept standing up, because in Germany, they'd be the only Black people in certain areas, so they'd always get harassed for loitering if they slept anywhere in public places. 

Essentially, they were all each other had.   

Fast forward to the year 1988; when record producer Frank Farian sees Rob and Fab rehearsing for a singing group in a Munich, Germany club; he knew they had the marketable look his new musical group were missing. So he signed them to a production deal.

Mind you, Rob and Fab were still homeless German kids, so Frank made the poisoned Kool-Aid a little sweeter when he gave them each a couple of hundred dollars for advances when he signed them. Then, when Rob and Fab spent the money on some food and a place to live, Frank told them they had to lip-synch on the tracks he gave them, or per their contract, they had to pay him back the advance. 

"We weren't hired, we were trapped..." Rob was quoted as saying. 

Coincidentally, Frank had done the whole lip-synching trick before with one of his other groups, 'Boney M'; and one of the men he hired for said group, was actually an 'exotic dancer'. Ya' see, this is how Frank rolled. 

The song, 'Girl you know it's true', was released on March 1, of 1989. And it was originally produced by Frank's cohort, Jesse Powell.  

And I don't care what people think about this song, it was hittin'! 

This started Rob and Fab's ride on the rollercoaster of international stardom; the two always hung closely together, because they felt safe around each other; if for no other reason, they didn't speak very fluent english. They considered themselves brothers 'cause they'd been through so much, and again, they were rarely seen apart.

But after a few years of celebrity their conscious couldn't let them deceive the public anymore, so Rob and Fab refused to show up at a particular video shoot unless they were allowed to sing!

Frank Farian threw a fit, fired Rob and Fab and went to the press telling them that 'Milli Vanilli', (i.e.) Rob and Fab, were frauds.

After the fall-out, and the following trauma of being exposed in the public eye, Rob and Fab couldn't be found together at all! They wanted to stay as far away from each other as possible because they said it reminded them of the stresses of the public exposure. 

Sadly, years later Rob committed suicide behind this trauma and Fab continued to sing on the local club circuit, but fell into obscurity. 

Now, let's bring this back to the plight of the Black Diaspora...the Black man and woman who were once inseparable, after suffering the traumas of white supremacist conditioning via the american school system and other white fascist mediums, now want nothing to do with each other.  

And here's my question: if we can acknowledge how the Black Diaspora as a whole has been conditioned to
self-destruct, why are Black people collectively scratching their heads wondering why we're self-destructing? 

The circumstances I've mentioned above are precisely why we'll go out of our way to avoid one another while we throw ourselves at every white person we see who may show an interest. And ultimately, we're trying to escape the trauma of going through this life as a Black person.

The other side to this is, Black people don't realize how we're perceived by whites and everyone else before we even get a closer proximity to them at the collegiate level. 

So, here's two ways we're perceived by white people, when it comes to how they deal with the Black Diaspora... 

And mind you, I'm focusing on white people because for the most part spanish and asian people are NOT going to be sexually attracted to us. And yes, there are exceptions to this rule but they're few and far between; because spanish and asian people have a 'non-white complex', so they're always trying to show everyone, especially Black people, how much 'whiter' they are compared to us. The shame of it all is, they don't realize, they'll never be white...but don't tell them that. White people don't have this complex because being that they are white, there's nothing they have to prove, this makes it easier for them to be more sexually active with Black people on the whole.

But back to whitey's perceptions of us before we're around them at the collegiate level...here are some ways white people view us before we ever sit next to one of them in a university's desk:

One, white people believe that we're only attracted to them because we're essentially gold-diggers and we want to get at their money, especially if they're 'trust fund babies'. Now, I'm not saying there's no exception to this rule, I'm saying this is how whitey perceives you before, during and after they get to know you. They think we just wanna' get in their pockets. When nine times outta' ten, we just want the closest proximity to them as possible, 'cause it makes us feel better about ourselves, it makes us feel we've accomplished something in this life having the privilege of being in the same room with these pale-skinned degenerates. 

Two, white people believe since we've grown up in poverty-ridden, single-parent households, that we've got  looser morals than their white peers, and they figure this is another reason we're so eager to be sexual with one of them right off the bat. I remember two white people were discussing how a Black female class mate of mine came from a monetarily upper-scale household, to which the white woman in the conversation offered: "Oh, I thought she lived in a small apartment with a bunch of her other siblings..."
   
Bascially, this is what the white woman saw on an episode of 'Good Times' or something; but to her, this was the reality of most Black people she knew...WHAT SHE SAW ON TV! Literally, this is all she knew about Black people...and all she cared to know. 

So every white person thinks if they ever hit a dry spell with their own kind, one of us will be waiting in the wings with a bed strapped to our backs, wanting to fulfill any lustful desire that comes to their heads. They feel they'll never want for fast and easy sex around us; and for the most part, we're so anxious to be accepted by them, they're usually right. That's why they feel it's okay to string some Black man or woman along with thoughts of longer-term relationships, until they find a white partner to marry; then they'll dump us and move on with their pale-skinned peer (Kerry Washington/Dave Moscow and J.Lo/Ben Affleck).

Now, how do we resolve this? Firstly, let me say, we CAN'T PRAY THIS AWAY!

We can't 'let go and let God' when it comes to the nearly two decades of conditioning we have to hate ourselves and each other. 

We have to recondition ourselves at the subconscious level to pluck out the white supremacist dictator in our minds, so we, the Black Diaspora, can get back to a place of loving ourselves and each other. And the only way to do that is through meditation. 

I have a Blog post I'll leave a link to at the end of this that shows one of the meditative techniques I'll include in my upcoming e-book 'How to heal the rift between Black men and women'. In that tome, I'll go into everything discussed here in more detail.

So you know the old axiom that's told to the Black community, and young Black men more specifically, stating if you sell drugs you're gonna' wind up in one of two places, dead or in jail? We, the Black Diaspora, should institute a new maxim that says, if you endeavor to marry a white person, you're gonna' wind up in one of two conditions, you'll either be oversexed or alone. 

And you don't have to take my word for it, the stats bare this out. 

To the Black men and women reading this...it's time we stop reviling each other, and start reviewing the reasons why it's imperative that we come to a place of being able to form successful and loving relationships again. And it's time we become wholly invested in saving the Black family. 

Now, if you care nothing about your people, continue to let yourself get used like a handy-wipe for whitey's pleasure...just remember, as you stare wantonly into the icy-blue or pale colored eyes of the white person you're bedding down with, that statistically and more than likely, what you'll get out of trying to marry this person, is what you'll soon be getting between the sheets...SCREWED! 

Brothas and Sistas, it's time we stop playing ourselves cheap, and it's way past time we rediscover that there's truly no love more divine than ours. Especially the love of a 'pure-bred' or pure-bred looking, Black man and woman.

Ma'at Hotep,

MontUHURU Mimia

P.S.

Here's the Blog post with one of the meditative exercises I talked about here.

And anyone doubting me or my past posts when I say white birth rates are falling below replacement levels should read this article here.