Saturday, September 27, 2014

Are you a sex toy for white people?


If you're a Black man or woman reading this and you've been in four or more 'intimate' relationships with white people outside of a marriage, answer these three questions for yourself honestly:

One: Have you been in five or more relationships with a white person where there was no talk of serious commitment that could lead to an engagement or marriage?

Two: Did you ever brag to a Black man or woman about how many white people you dated and how they treated you better than any brotha or sista did, while you were no longer in a relationship with any of these white people?

And Three: If you were in four or more relationships with white people, did you meet any of their relatives?

If you answered yes to the first two questions, and no to the last one, chances are, some white person is using you as their personal sex toy. And here's a little secret about us Black people, especially the college educated ones...far too many of us have become sex toys for whitey's amusement without even knowing it. 

Now, let's ask the logical question that should be on everyone's mind...why? 

Mind you, I'm only asking this question of Black men and women.  Cause there's a multitude of stats about what percentage of Black men and women are single across the board. The majority of which seem inflated to me, and this is 'cause the edicts of white fascism dictate that one way whites always get to feel better about themselves is to look at the dysfunction in the Black community. 

When any group(s) of white people are enduring a recession or a state of joblessness, they can always look at some negative stat about Black people and this keeps them feeling safely superior to us. But, whether it's organizations like the Pew Research Center or the U.S. Census Bureau, the numbered results basically look like this:

Over 60% of Black women AND men are single.

And, over 70% of Black children are born into single parent households. 

But ya' wanna' know a disturbing fact? I'm surprised these stats aren't higher; let me explain why...

An extremely critical point I keep bringing up, only because it's the most crucial one when it comes to what's really ailing the Black Diaspora, is this: If you're a Black person, ever since you've started walking, you've been taught that EVERYTHING about you is wrong. 

EVERY single history book you've read in pre, middle and high school has taught you to hate yourself and everyone who looks like you!

This is done by force feeding you a study diet of two subjects we're taught to obsess over all our lives, slavery and Martin Luther King. 

So let's break down the effect(s) of what being reared on slave narratives and MLK does to a Black person's esteem and psyche.

When you're constantly shown pictures of your people being hung, butchered, burnt at stakes and whipped to within inches of their lives, what do you think it does to a young person's mind? 

I'll tell you...it leaves a scar! This is similar to a child being traumatized in a household through constant beatings with foreign objects like belts and extension cords. 

These images of our people take a sledge hammer to our esteems, and unfortunately, the majority of Black men and women go to their graves with these scars, never realizing how they've been affected by the white supremacist conditioning they've gotten to hate themselves. 

This is why the majority of us never want to identify ourselves as Black and why we'll do anything NOT to be around Black people. And our damaged ability to love ourselves and each other help us stay in perpetual states of being a bachelor or bachelorette.   

For young Black men, study diets of slavery and MLK  nearly erase all the confidence any healthy young man needs to assert his place as a 'leader' or the head of the household in his community. Seeing his male ancestors subjugated, in chains and in perpetual states of pain, says to him he's probably doomed to fail before he starts. And in a very real way, it says, he probably will never rise above a certain lowly station in life, 'cause you come from a people that are predisposed to failure.

For young Black women, it says there's NO protection for you in this life with your man being so emasculated. There's no semblance of security, no sense of stability, emotionally, financially or otherwise. And ultimately, you'll be left to 'fend for yourself!

Now, the Martin Luther King slant on this further tells young Black men and women they should passively accept what these schools, or any other local institutions, tell them about themselves. After all, whitey and his supremacist institutions know best. (The gospel of white supremacy). It says a good Black christian doesn't bother the order of things. And if he or she does upset the status quo, it should be in an attempt to get closer to, or be more like white people; regardless of how they brutalize or murderously torture you and your community. 

And one more component of the 'Martin Luther King' doctrine is, even if you are passive and non-violent, you should EXPECT to die violently. 

Oddly enough, I think a better analogy to use concerning this topic might be the tale of the pop group 'Milli Vanilli'...Yeah, that 'Milli Vanilli'...you know, Rob and Fab who got busted for not singing on their records. I know what you're thinking...have you gone mad? But just indulge me for a sec'; you'll see it's value when I'm done.

In the early eighties, Rob Pilatus and Fab Morvan were basically homeless 'club kids' trying to forge careers as models/dancers. They were inseparable because they were both young Black men in Germany who were disowned by their parents, and both tell stories of growing up in unstable and abusive households. Rob used to tell stories of abuses he suffered at the hands of his German mother who was also a porn actress. He and Fab said when they were living on the streets they oftentimes slept standing up, because in Germany, they'd be the only Black people in certain areas, so they'd always get harassed for loitering if they slept anywhere in public places. 

Essentially, they were all each other had.   

Fast forward to the year 1988; when record producer Frank Farian sees Rob and Fab rehearsing for a singing group in a Munich, Germany club; he knew they had the marketable look his new musical group were missing. So he signed them to a production deal.

Mind you, Rob and Fab were still homeless German kids, so Frank made the poisoned Kool-Aid a little sweeter when he gave them each a couple of hundred dollars for advances when he signed them. Then, when Rob and Fab spent the money on some food and a place to live, Frank told them they had to lip-synch on the tracks he gave them, or per their contract, they had to pay him back the advance. 

"We weren't hired, we were trapped..." Rob was quoted as saying. 

Coincidentally, Frank had done the whole lip-synching trick before with one of his other groups, 'Boney M'; and one of the men he hired for said group, was actually an 'exotic dancer'. Ya' see, this is how Frank rolled. 

The song, 'Girl you know it's true', was released on March 1, of 1989. And it was originally produced by Frank's cohort, Jesse Powell.  

And I don't care what people think about this song, it was hittin'

This started Rob and Fab's ride on the rollercoaster of international stardom; the two always hung closely together, because they felt safe around each other; if for no other reason, they didn't speak very fluent english. They considered themselves brothers 'cause they'd been through so much, and again, they were rarely seen apart.

But after a few years of celebrity their conscious couldn't let them deceive the public anymore, so Rob and Fab refused to show up at a particular video shoot unless they were allowed to sing!

Frank Farian threw a fit, fired Rob and Fab and went to the press telling them that 'Milli Vanilli', (i.e.) Rob and Fab, were frauds.

After the fall-out, and the following trauma of being exposed in the public eye, Rob and Fab couldn't be found together at all! They wanted to stay as far away from each other as possible because they said it reminded them of the stresses of the public exposure. 

Sadly, years later Rob committed suicide behind this trauma and Fab continued to sing on the local club circuit, but fell into obscurity. 

Now, let's bring this back to the plight of the Black Diaspora...the Black man and woman who were once inseparable, after suffering the traumas of white supremacist conditioning via the american school system and other white fascist mediums, now want nothing to do with each other.  

And here's my question: if we can acknowledge how the Black Diaspora as a whole has been conditioned to
self-destruct, why are Black people collectively scratching their heads wondering why we're self-destructing? 

The circumstances I've mentioned above are precisely why we'll go out of our way to avoid one another while we throw ourselves at every white person we see who may show an interest. And ultimately, we're trying to escape the trauma of going through this life as a Black person.

The other side to this is, Black people don't realize how we're perceived by whites and everyone else before we even get a closer proximity to them at the collegiate level. 

So, here's two ways we're perceived by white people, when it comes to how they deal with the Black Diaspora... 

And mind you, I'm focusing on white people because for the most part spanish and asian people are NOT going to be sexually attracted to us. And yes, there are exceptions to this rule but they're few and far between; because spanish and asian people have a 'non-white complex', so they're always trying to show everyone, especially Black people, how much 'whiter' they are compared to us. The shame of it all is, they don't realize, they'll never be white...but don't tell them that. White people don't have this complex because being that they are white, there's nothing they have to prove, this makes it easier for them to be more sexually active with Black people on the whole.

But back to whitey's perceptions of us before we're around them at the collegiate level...here are some ways white people view us before we ever sit next to one of them in a university's desk:

One, white people believe that we're only attracted to them because we're essentially gold-diggers and we want to get at their money, especially if they're 'trust fund babies'. Now, I'm not saying there's no exception to this rule, I'm saying this is how whitey perceives you before, during and after they get to know you. They think we just wanna' get in their pockets. When nine times outta' ten, we just want the closest proximity to them as possible, 'cause it makes us feel better about ourselves, it makes us feel we've accomplished something in this life having the privilege of being in the same room with these pale-skinned degenerates. 

Two, white people believe since we've grown up in poverty-ridden, single-parent households, that we've got  looser morals than their white peers, and they figure this is another reason we're so eager to be sexual with one of them right off the bat. I remember two white people were discussing how a Black female class mate of mine came from a monetarily upper-scale household, to which the white woman in the conversation offered: "Oh, I thought she lived in a small apartment with a bunch of her other siblings..."
   
Bascially, this is what the white woman saw on an episode of 'Good Times' or something; but to her, this was the reality of most Black people she knew...WHAT SHE SAW ON TV! Literally, this is all she knew about Black people...and all she cared to know. 

So every white person thinks if they ever hit a dry spell with their own kind, one of us will be waiting in the wings with a bed strapped to our backs, wanting to fulfill any lustful desire that comes to their heads. They feel they'll never want for fast and easy sex around us; and for the most part, we're so anxious to be accepted by them, they're usually right. That's why they feel it's okay to string some Black man or woman along with thoughts of longer-term relationships, until they find a white partner to marry; then they'll dump us and move on with their pale-skinned peer (Kerry Washington/Dave Moscow and J.Lo/Ben Affleck).

Now, how do we resolve this? Firstly, let me say, we CAN'T PRAY THIS AWAY!

We can't 'let go and let God' when it comes to the nearly two decades of conditioning we have to hate ourselves and each other. 

We have to recondition ourselves at the subconscious level to pluck out the white supremacist dictator in our minds, so we, the Black Diaspora, can get back to a place of loving ourselves and each other. And the only way to do that is through meditation. 

I have a Blog post I'll leave a link to at the end of this that shows one of the meditative techniques I'll include in my upcoming e-book 'How to heal the rift between Black men and women'. In that tome, I'll go into everything discussed here in more detail.

So you know the old axiom that's told to the Black community, and young Black men more specifically, stating if you sell drugs you're gonna' wind up in one of two places, dead or in jail? We, the Black Diaspora, should institute a new maxim that says, if you endeavor to marry a white person, you're gonna' wind up in one of two conditions, you'll either be oversexed or alone. 

And you don't have to take my word for it, the stats bare this out. 

To the Black men and women reading this...it's time we stop reviling each other, and start reviewing the reasons why it's imperative that we come to a place of being able to form successful and loving relationships again. And it's time we become wholly invested in saving the Black family. 

Now, if you care nothing about your people, continue to let yourself get used like a handy-wipe for whitey's pleasure...just remember, as you stare wantonly into the icy-blue or pale colored eyes of the white person you're bedding down with, that statistically and more than likely, what you'll get out of trying to marry this person, is what you'll soon be getting between the sheets...SCREWED! 

Brothas and Sistas, it's time we stop playing ourselves cheap, and it's way past time we rediscover that there's truly no love more divine than ours. Especially the love of a 'pure-bred' or pure-bred looking, Black man and woman.

Ma'at Hotep,

MontUHURU Mimia

P.S.

Here's the Blog post with one of the meditative exercises I talked about here.

And anyone doubting me or my past posts when I say white birth rates are falling below replacement levels should read this article here.

25 comments:

  1. testing testig is this thing on.....

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  2. gooooood.....YES WE THE BLACK MAN AND WOMAN ARE SEX TOYS BUT NOT JUST TO WHITEYS BUT TO THE WORLDDD! WE AMUSE THEM THEY LAUGH AT US POKE FUN WE DO TRICKS AND THEN SLEEP WITH US AND THEN WE DIE. READERS GOOGLE HOW THEY DID SARAH BAARTMAN!!
    why do we consciously sell or give away ourselves you may ask? TWO WORDS :FINANCES AND WORTH! you think if we were still sitting on our rightful thrones and had provisions and accounts and land we would submit to them i highly doubt....but we DONT have anything so we SETTLE for nothing ...its called SURVIVAL.....we play their pawns( though some appreciate doing so) because it is designed this way...yes there is freedom of choice but is the word free really free?

    we are sex toys amongst each other as well and the black man does not embrace his counterpart bottom line! BLACK MEN GLORIFY THE WHITE, SPANISH,ASIAN, PEURTO RICAN, MIXED ,ANYTHNG THAT AINT DARK WOMAN,,,HER REQUIREMENTS AND STANDARDS DONT HAVE TO BE NOTHING BUT MERELY BE THIS. THE DARK SKINNED BLACK FEMALE HOWEVER IS AUTOMATICALLY LABELED AS DRAMA OR A BABY MAMA FROM THE RIIIIPPPPP BEFORE ACKNOWLEDGING HER GOALS ACHIEVEMENTS APPRECIATION ETC ETC...THE DARK SKINNED WOMANS MAIN ROAL IS PROJECTED AS TO WORK TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD ALONE AND GET THIS DICK....THEY WANT US IN THE BEDROOM IN THE DARKNESS,,,WHILE THE WHITE WOMAN OR "RED BONE" GIRL GETS THE TITLE "WIFEY"

    BUT LIKE TUPAC SAID " WILL THE REAL MEN GET UP ! I KNOW YOU FED UP LADIES BUT KEEP YA HEAD UP) THIS WAS WRITTEN FOR AND TO TO THE BLACK WOMAN ESPECIALLY MY CHOCOLATE SISTER. the media and our own people(family members, classmates, boyfriends girlfriends) drive in our heads that we are NOT good enough pretty enough deserving enough worthy enough loving enough smart enough but we should turn that ass around and bend over....WE (I) THE BLACK WOMAN AM IN PAIN AND THE BLACK MAN IS NOT EMBRACING AND LOVING US HES FUCKING US KNOCKING US UP HAVE HIM NURTURE HIM AND THEN TURNS HIS BACK ON US THE MINUTE HE THINKS HE HAS FOUND "THE LIGHT"

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    1. 'Conga'...

      I had a friend who I'll call Brian; and in my early teens, he had the highest grade of melanin I ever saw on a person...meaning, the brotha had that deep, dark chocolate looking skin. At the time, I didn't have the same kinda' consciousness I do now, and even I shamefully admit thinking, man...it's gotta' be terrible to have that color of 'blue-Black' skin.

      When we'd talk, he sometimes confessed to me how he cried himself to sleep many nights because Black young women didn't find him attractive due to his skin being so dark. And it was a huge knock to his esteem. He lived in a relatively stable household and even though his father didn't live with him, he saw him regularly; so, his confidence was intact thankfully, and last I heard he was doing well.

      But I can't tell you how many young Black men went through this kinda' trauma when 'light-skinned' brothas would get all the young Black women. And when the young Black women obviously favored any young Black man with very european looking features and light skin.

      So, my point is, Black women AND men suffered this kinda' bias from our people...why? Because these pale-skinned degenerates we know as white people taught us to hate everything about ourselves ever since we started walking. Again, every history book you and I have ever read in pre, middle and high school taught us our skin and facial features were reprehensible.

      You see, UNTIL BLACK MEN AND WOMEN SEE THAT WE'VE SUFFERED THE SAME TRAUMAS, WE'LL NEVER HEAL THE RIFT BETWEEN US!

      Again, Black men AND women went through this trauma!

      When we can see this, then we can move forward thinking about solutions to the problem.

      Now you say 'we don't have anything so we settle for nothing'...This again is a trick of the white elite on the Black psyche.

      To tell the truth...Black men and women have EVERYTHING that whitey envies!!

      We have genetic superiority, meaning we can create any one of them (white, spanish, asian people) but none of them can create one of us.

      The Congo IS THE MOST MINERAL-RICH LAND ON THE EARTH Conga!! It has an abundance of diamonds, gold, coltan, copper, etc.

      Not only do we create the best genres of music, but we created MUSIC PERIOD!!

      WE CREATED ALL THE SCIENCES, THE FIRST UNIVERSITY IN THE WORLD WAS IN TIMBUKTU, AFRICA...THE SANKORE MADRASAH...google this!

      MOREOVER, WE ARE THE MOST DIRECT REPRESENTATION OF GOD ON THIS EARTH...BEING THAT ALL LIFE COMES FROM DARK MATTER, AND THAT'S WHY WE ARE BLACK 'CAUSE WE ARE THE FIRST PEOPLE TO COME OUT OF THAT DARKNESS!

      This is why EVERY OTHER CULTURE COPIES OUR FASHIONS, DANCES, AND VERNACULAR!

      Now, here's the thing...if you DON'T KNOW THESE FACTS, you'll hate yourself while white people do everything they can to be like you up to and including tanning themselves and injecting silicone into their lips and butts to look like us!

      And unfortuantely...what we have above all this, is the white supremacist conditioning to hate ourselves! SO THAT'S ALL WE SEE...THE NEGATIVE.

      What I'm trying to do is show Black people, that being BORN BLACK IS A BLESSING AND NOT A BURDEN!

      And how do we do that? Though meditation and the reconditioning of our subconscious minds!

      And this is something I've done, so I know it's doable!

      Once we see ourselves for the GODS AND GODDESSES WE ARE, WE'LL HEAL THE RIFT BETWEEN THE BLACK MAN AND WOMAN AND SAVE THE BLACK FAMILY!

      And that's the ULTIMATE goal!

      Thanks for commenting!

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  3. the dark skinned black man is not ready and willing to accept himself ...he/she is desperate to associate to any category other than being black . i know a muslim brother christian turned muslim for sum pussy ( hah) . but basically he left his muslim dark skinned successful business owning younger wife and 2 years old dark skinned son for a muslim light skin single woman that was his age ,had three kids from past relationships , lived in the projects, and was a janitor-well at least she worked right (lol) but she manipulated the system to get every food stamp housing cash income tax come up etch etc she could get but that was his queen and within a year of the affair he married and left his wife and child for the "white muslim goddess" to this day he despises he other kids (n the dark ones)which happens to be 6 of them and regrets having them and look at them as burdens ...on that same breath he worships his step children ( the light ones) in which they can do no wrong and he bends over backwards to the point of being completely broken and brainwashed. he actually payed off the children's real fathers to never come around so he can solely be looked at as the father being...he with his chest out says those my kids ! i been to every after school meeting i put them thru college etc etc but when his biological son recently asked him to come to advance placement course advisement at his high school his dad the muslim guy replied i can't i got work( mind you i know this man for a fact leaves his job to go to his step sons( the light one) basketball practice etc etc

    SMH THIS IS JUST ONE BLACK MAN OF MANY....and we sisters have hope?

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    1. Anonymous...

      Please refer to my last reply to 'Conga Dan' for the reason sistas should have hope!

      Again, the solution to this kinda' self-hating mentality is the reconditioning of our subconscious minds! And once we can do this en masse, we'll heal the rift between the Black man and woman and save the Black nuclear family.

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  4. i had wrote conga dans post but anyhow i get all that you are saying but it still does not fix anything we will just nod our heads and say uh huh...i am familiar with the history of what we truly have as a people but it has been stolen from us and we don't identify with it any...therefore leaving us on E

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  5. WE HATE OURSELVES BECAUSE OF POVERTY DONT YOU SEE....IF WE HAD MONEY OR WERE ON OUR RIGHTFUL THRONES WE WOULDNT HAVE TO FEEL THE NEED CHASE THEM ...I THINK FEAR TOTALLY OVERRIDES THE SELF HATE

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    1. THE BLACK DIASPORA IS NOT POOR!!

      AND I'LL SAY THIS AGAIN...THE BLACK DIASPORA IS NOT POOR!! Do you know that just in america, there are more poor white and spanish people than Black people?

      Do you know the people who make up most of the welfare recipients in america are white people?

      Remember what I stated about the Congo being the world's most valuable land? With it's wealth of diamonds, gold, etc.? And ALL OF AFRICA HAS THIS KIND OF MINERAL WEALTH!

      Do you know that in terms of world hunger, the continent that ranks highest is NOT AFRICA, BUT ASIA!

      So, once again, the white elites through decades of conditioning HAVE CONVINCED US THAT WE'RE WORTHLESS! AND WE BELIEVED THEM! And the result is the schism we have in the Black Diaspora.

      But now that I'm presenting you with the facts, you, and every Black person reading this Blog has a choice to make!

      WILL YOU STAY IN YOUR WHITE SUPREMACIST CONDITIONED STATE AND CONTINUE TO HATE YOURSELF?

      OR WILL YOU EMBRACE THE MEDITATIVE EXERCISES I'VE PUT FORTH AND WILL CONTINUE TO PUT FORTH IN THE FUTURE, SO WE CAN RECONDITION OURSELVES OUT OF THAT SELF-HATRED!

      THIS IS A CHOICE! AND THE CHOICE IS YOURS!!

      I KNOW WHAT DECISION I'VE MADE...HOW 'BOUT YOU?

      Again, thanks for commenting!

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    2. On top of what MontUHURU said,you should research something called the Hegelian Dialectic. What is it? It's essentially the blueprint for mind control. It follows three simple steps:

      1) Create the problem.

      2) Wait for a reaction/outcry.

      3) Create and implement the solution.

      This in turn causes the same person(s) who caused the ruckus to be hailed as a 'hero'/as heroes.

      THIS IS THE PHILOSOPHICAL BREAD AND BUTTER OF RACISM-WHITE SUPREMACY. And you see it play itself out in EVERY facet of life. (The Willie Lynch Letter is a great example of the application of this.)

      I'll throw you a scenario. For example, going back to what MontUHURU said, us as Melanoids have been rigorously conditioned to hate ourselves, which causes us to have the desire to be like White/Non-Black people. This in turn causes us to have ill feelings and destructive tendencies towards each other, especially in the dating arena (1:Create the problem). This in turn causes us to cry out in frustration about how "there is no good Black Men/Women around" (2: Wait for reaction/outcry). And lo and behold, here comes the White/Non-Black Man/Woman to "save" you from the grips of your own people, while at the same time abusing you even worse than your own people (3: Create and implement the solution).

      Once you understand this, then you can better comprehend what MontUHURU is saying.

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  6. how the hell can the white man abuse us more than our own people..... they would never have such power if we didn't keep shitting on each other...WHAT IS DISGUSTING IS THAT OUR PEOPLE ARE FAMILIAR WITH OUR PAINS AND STRUGGLES AND STILL SELL US OUT.... AND YOU STILL HAVE NOT ADRESSED WHY THE BLACK MAN REFUSES TO EMBRACE HIS BLACK WOMAN..... STOP TALKING ABOUT WHAT THE WHITEYS HAVE DONE TO US AND ANSWER THAT "BROTHER"!!!!!!!!YOU GUYS SIT ON YOUR COMPUTERS RESEARCH FEEL LIKE INTELLECTS MEDITATE AND THEN WHAT....ARE YALL GOING OUT IN THE STREETS AND HEALING THE RIFT... ARE YOU GRABBING BLACK WOMAN OUT COMPLIMENTING DINING LOVING YOUR BLACK QUEEN? i doubt it ! OR U JUST HIDING LIKE ADAM DID IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN WAITING TO BLAME YOUR TROUBLES ON EVE......ALL THE RESEARCH YOU DO ABOUT HOW BRAINWASHED WE ARE AINT FIXING SHIT!!!! BUT MAKING PPL SAY UH HUH UH HUH U RIGHT BROTHER .... its not about conditioning its about what we have access to,,,,,we (I) don't hate myself its about reality and survival......TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT YOURSELF MONTY SINCE YOU HAVE BEEN WRITING THESE BLOGS WHAT REAL IMPACT HAVE YOU HAD ON THE WORLD? AND ENHANCING BLACK LOVE......IF YOU CANNOT GIVE ME PROOF THAT YOU HAVE ACTUALLY CHANGED /SAVE A LIFE INSTEAD OF ACTING LIKE A HYPER CHILD THAT JUST CAME FROM SCHOOL FORCE FEEDING EVERYTHING U JUST LEARNED.......i don't hate self kevin and monty i love people AS AAA WHOLE however BLACKS don't love themselves.......LET ME REPEAT WHAT GOOD IS A DIAMOND IF WE DONT HAVE ACCESS TO IT... YES MORE WHITE PEOPLE ARE ON WELFARE AND IN POVERTY BUT THEY ARE ALSO OFFERED MORE JOBS AND HAVE MORE OPPORTUNITY BOTTOM LINE....ITS A SET UP GUYS BUT YALL JUST KEEP SPITTING OUT FACTS THE WHITEYS STILL LAUGHING AND WINNING .....aside from worrying about "them" we have bigger issues like weather control ...mind control....that will kill a llll not just blacks

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    1. I agree with you and don't understand why Uhuru didn't address your concerns. He's usually even keeled and discusses how blacks should not criticize one another so I don't know what happened other than maybe you hit a "personal nerve". I'm happy that he's trying to undo all of the "anglophilic brainwashing", but how successful has he been? Honestly, what have black men and women physically done in response to reading this blog? I mean, really? I've written off dating outside my color after finding this blog, but it's hard. Being alone often sucks and it sucks more to suffer alone, but now that I know whites don't give a shit about my journey as a black female I feel more ostracized than ever, because when I open up with these feelings to black men (especially one I'm interested in) and I find out he's with a white woman who is barely in her twenties, dropped out of high school, reels him back into the relationship due to "I'm-a-white-woman-damsel-in-distress" shit . . . well, then I get pissed off all over again and want to write black men off. Hell, I'll write 'em all off. BUT, no, I'll never go "that way". Anyway, Uhuru, I just want to know why you got so mad at this post? I felt that the person who posted this wasn't angry at you or your cause I think that she is just upset that the rift isn't being healed fast enough to make viable difference in her life. It's sad, man. Real sad. I feel like I need to do more, but what? I need more than meditation.

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    2. Firstly, let me say this to all people Black people who share this person's sentiment about how I 'treated' this commenter...the reason I was dismissive with 'Conga', or whatever this person chose to call themselves is, THIS PERSON IS NOT INTERESTED IN SOLUTIONS, THEY JUST WANT TO ARGUE.

      Now, I'll state emphatically that if you want to truly debate about what the Black Diaspora needs to do to heal itself, I'll comment and reply with you all day, 'Conga' though, IS CONTENT TO BE AN ANGLOPHILE, I.E. Conga just wants to throw up her hands and say, oh well, the problem's too difficult to fix...and if you have that attitude, you're dead in the water anyway.

      Also, understand something else...and any Black person reading this needs to take this to heart...THIS BLOG AND THE SOLUTIONS OFFERED HERE ARE NOT A QUICK FIX FOR THE BLACK DIASPORA'S PROBLEMS!

      THERE IS NO MAGIC BULLET THAT'S GONNA' QUICKLY SOLVE THE PROBLEMS WE'VE BEEN SUFFERING FOR GENERATIONS!

      So when I relate to Conga how Black men and women have been conditioned to hate themselves and each other, and this person still says I'm not answering the question of why Black men don't embrace Black women, I'm thinking, what is it that you don't get about why Black men and women hate each other when they've been conditioned to hate themselves?

      How much more clearly can I make the case for what's happened to us, and what is happening to us?

      Also, understand THIS BLOG ISN'T FOR EVERYONE!

      If you're a Black person who is dedicated to doing the work needed to recondition yourself out of the white supremacist mindset that's been force fed into us, by all means, let's converse and build with each other. BUT IF YOU'VE MADE THE CHOICE TO STAY STUCK IN THIS MINDSET BECAUSE YOU HAVE AN ABIDING LOVE FOR WHITEY....I CAN'T HELP YOU! BECAUSE ULTIMATELY, YOU DON'T WANT TO BE HELPED!

      Thus I told 'Conga' hey...stick with your white supremacist doctrine and go be happy.

      And if you're saying you need more than meditation, what you're really telling me is you need more than meditation RIGHT NOW! Again, I say to you, the ONLY way we're gonna' truly change so we can go begin loving ourselves and one another again, is through reconditioning the subconscious mind through meditation...PERIOD.

      Anything else will just put a band-aid on a deep, gash of a wound.

      Now, to this end, I am currently working on a tome called, 'How to heal the rift between Black men and women' that will explain this in more detail, but meditation will be it's main focus.

      Understand, after we begin to recondition ourselves out of this self hatred, then we can love ourselves better, thus we'll love each other more and then we can arrive at some kind of unity.

      But again people, THIS IS NOT A SPRINT, IT'S A MARATHON...AND I'M NOT LOOKING FOR THOSE WHO CAN RUN FAST, I'M LOOKING FOR LONG-DISTANCE RUNNERS!

      Now, if that's you, let's do this...if not, try what you've been doing, and see how that works out for you!

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  7. Conga...anonymous...or whatever you're calling yourself now....

    I didn't fail to answer your question, you're just failing to make a point!

    We've already established how you're comfortable being an anglophile and I'm not. So what's the problem?

    What's with the bi-polar, adolscent rants about what I'm not doing for the Diaspora? You want to stay in the good graces of these pale-skinned degenerates...FINE...DO THAT AND GO BE HAPPY!

    When you tell me to stop posing as other bloggers, it's because that's what you admitted to doing yourself when as an anonymous commenter, you said you wrote 'Conga Dan's' comments!

    When you say I'm a 'cornball' and no woman wants me, I'm thinking,
    damn, is this guy still in grade school?

    And yes, I told a commenter before that I lived in PA, that's where you got that piece of info. from! So if you think I should find it disturbing that you know this, you should understand you need to come better than that to get under my skin!

    What you don't get is someone with as unstable a mind as yours, can't and won't have the skills needed to 'push my buttons'.

    So, concentrate on the more important things like moving outta' your moms basement and starting a life! That would be a much more constructive use of your time.

    In the meantime, put that feeble brain in neutral and go watch TMZ or wrestling! I wouldn't want you hurting yourself trying to get through another one of my Blog posts...that could 'cause irreparable damage!

    Again...so long!!

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  8. sorry MontUHURU Mimia but you are behind the times,clam down and accept the truth,

    BWE blogs/websites jargon: DBR, Rainbeau,NBAB, GATDL and Blackistan

    Damaged Beyond Repair (DBR) Refers to all (and only) black men. The idea is the for whatever reason, black men who are not these women’s kin are troubled misogynists, who are verbally abusive at best and serial rapists [insert white male police link] at worst. This is of course, backed up using confirmation bias ad highly circumstantial statistics.

    Rainbeau – A handsome non-black (but almost always white) man who is interested in an interracial relationship with a black woman. A portmanteau of Rainbow and beau.

    Nothing but a brother (NBAB) – a designation given to black women whose relationships are exclusively with black men, and who enthusiastically . [insert drink cat piss that date a white man] The BWE ‘movement’ sees these women as a threat to their cause, as they put out the message that black women wish to have nothing to do with white, meaning , non-black men.

    Guardian of all Things Dark and Lovely (GATDL) – A person or organization that refutes the stereotypes about blacks through empirical, statistical or rational arguments, while at the same time taking pride in their blackness. The phrase is of course, used sarcastically.

    Blackistan - a region where black people are numerous the aim of BWE is to remove oneself to suburbs with a white male and biracial kids in tow.

    Initally the movement was headed by Evia Sharon Moore, Khadija Nassif and Faith Dow however a latecomer came along Christelyn Karazin stole they work and tried to present herself as spokesperson for BWE the other three got mad!! and ran her out CW owner of BlackWomenDeserveBetter BROKE RANK and married a black man though she still has her website up in order to publish her book, oh yes the BWE ladies all have books mostly self published save for Christelyn Karazin who got a major publisher Simon and Schluster to back, to minimal sales I might add.

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  9. BWE’s LorMarie ain’t got no love for her fellow Black Woman Cecile Kyenge.
    Cecile Kyenye standing up for black people in Italy is messing up the game it may make white Italian lose their ‘black woman fetish’ and LorMarie cannot have that.
    The words of LorMarie:
    Cecile Kyenge: A lesson for black women that want to escape to Europe. ‘………………………….When black women go to Europe , I firmly believe it is in our best interest to respect the culture, traditions etc, in other words assimilation is the way to go at least in public. In the privacy of your own home do as you wish but don’t go to Italy, Belgium, Denmark, etc and start a Black this and a Black that organisation. Don’t give anyone a reason to perceive you as a threat to their way of life…………………..my advice to black women relocating to Europe definitely go, but please do not rock the boat.We do not need anymore negative perceptions than we already have.’
    Yep scores of black women in Italy acting Italian will not make the Indiegeous Italians feel threaten about the perservation of their genotype and phenotype, white Italian women will just say nothing.
    http://lormariesplace.com/cecile-kyenge-a-lesson-for-black-women-that-want-to-escape-to-europe/

    LorMarie is a black woman who got artificially inseminated with white sperm to have designer biracial, she has written for Beyond Black and White. LorMarie used to post on a white supremacist website. She was called an "honorary" white woman for her opinions on Black men and was congratulated for her racial choice of donor sperm by bloggers at the white supremacist website she used to visit regularly.
    http://accessstlouis.blogspot.com/20...-her-baby.html
    ‘Awwww a bundle of babycry and joy! Our Honorary Aryan has found her a guy with a 160 IQ to procreate with and now she's the proud mother of a little baby girl! We here at Access St. Louis, while urging our own women to find a good man and have lots of babies for the coming new White Nation, would like to congratulate Lormarie on her new family. As Lormarie herself said, it's better to have 3 million quality blacks than to have 33 million worthless ones. I think Lormarie, from my dealings with her on JCE, belongs to that 1 percent. She's intelligent, thoughful, calm and collected even when she's viciously attacked as was the case with Apollonian. She understands what it means to live among our people and I think she appreciates it in a white way, not a black. Above all, she's honest and isn't afraid to tell the truth, even if it makes others mad. We here at ASTL prize that highly.

    So, Congratulations, Lormarie. Who knows? You may be the Mother Lucy of a whole new race of Blacks that will build a civilization to the stars!’

    This is a person proudly accepted on many IR and BWE blogs.

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  10. BWE Comment of the century: I will breed out and sleep well'

    Posted on Kola Boof ‘s page by a black woman, if a black man said the same they would be hell to pay.

    JaeJae UppityN'HiFalutin Turner


    I know I will be making biracial babies and I know I will not be reproducing blackness. We can not under any circumstances pretend that this is NOT what we are doing. However, I have no tribe and no male collective that is loyal to me therefore, I will breed out and sleep well. I adore all babies and black ones are my favs, but I'll damned if I birth them into dysfunction. They don't deserve. It

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  11. MontUHURU Mimia I bet your going to tell me you do not like Ghettogaggers, where's your free loving spirit.

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    1. Harry...

      As much as I'd like to attribute the downfall of the Black Diaspora solely to the behaviors of Black women, I can't, here's why...

      The other day I was talking to a brotha from work and he said he gave one of his Black friends/acquaintances a loan months ago, then he saw that same person wearing a whole new wardrobe weeks later. He said he knew this person gets paid every Friday, but it's been weeks and they haven't paid him back. Afterwards telling me this, he said, I don't get why Black people are like that.

      Another older Black gentlemen and I were conversing about the state of the Black Diaspora and this person told me emphatically that Black people have NO CHANCE of changing their (negative) ways.

      Now, it's a damn shame that these two brothas don't realize that if you do some research or just talk to some different people, you'll find this kind of behavior(s) in every ethnic group.

      Now, I'm not endorsing this behavior, I'm saying that these brothas have it in their minds that ONLY BLACK PEOPLE ACT THIS WAY...and nothing could be further from the truth.

      So, it's Black men AND women who are caught in a self-hating mindset, bred into us by white supremacists; and here's the real rub...we don't even recognize what whitey has done to us...WE THINK WE'RE BORN THIS WAY!!

      So until Black men AND women recondition themselves outta' this white supremacist induced self-hatred, our communities and the whole of our diaspora will stay on a study course to self-destruction.

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  12. URUHU, I love your post. We definitely need more black unity and understanding.... The LAST thing we need to do breed ourselves out. I think your philosophy is GREAT, we just need to get the word out. PLEASE speak some sense into the BWE. This is the sickest and most absurd thing I've ever heard... The BWE needs some social consciousness education BADLY. They need to check out the Black Hebrew Israelites doctrine. It all begins with Deuteronomy 28: 15-68. We were the first people here and are the true children of Israel, whom the Bible speaks about from Genesis to Revelation.... Everything that we are going through is because our forefathers transgressed against The Most High. He said that we will be in bondage for 400 years. Approximately 1619 to 2019. The Most High will then redeem us back as his people. We are the only people on the planet who fits the description of the curses spoken about in Deut 28: 15-68. Our people just need some education as to whom we really are according to the Bible. The BWE is completely lost... Please do what you can to educate and redeem them... I love all of your blogs, please keep up the good work and please don't be discouraged. You are really on point!!!

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    1. Firstly, thANKHS for your compliments!

      Second, I have nothing against Black isrealites or the bible, but I'm a Black Nationalist; meaning, I think Black people need to put aside any sociological or ideological, or even cultural differences between us, so we can achieve a common goal.

      Third, our people created the christian religion, unfortunately, it's been hijacked by white supremacists; and their spin on the bible will have us thinking we're 'cursed' to be this way, WHEN WE ARE NOT!!

      Our ancient ancestors, in a fit of self-hatred, not only created white inbreds, but gave them the technology to rule over the earth, just as we had before them. That's why whitey is the world's minority, or they're the last people to arrive on this planet, and that's why they're ruling the earth with OUR SPIRITUAL SCIENCES!

      This is why white supremacist freemasons use pyramids, African tekhens (Washington monument) and the Eye of Ra and Heru (all seeing eye), to represent themselves.

      Now, what the BWE need to do is recondition themselves our of their self-hatred, so they could finally and truly begin to love who they are. But here's another problem with that, THEY MIGHT NOT WANT TO CHANGE!!

      Some people, or groups of Black people, are not thinking about changing and never will, so you have to align yourself with people who think like you and I, so you'll have an organization that can help you change those who want to come up out of their self-hatred.

      So, don't waste your time with the BWE; find a clique who thinks like you, so you can attract other like-minded Black folks who wanna' work towards the liberation of our people.

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    2. I recently stopped looking at those BWE blogs and sites because of the constant bickering, complaining and backbiting from the women in the BWE blogsphere. A few of them even attacked me and called me names too. And I thought this was about empowering Black women to live better lives and date whoever they want to regardless of race.

      Many Black women in the BWE are definitely lost.

      Being young and college age, I am glad I stopped looking at those blogs and started to think for myself. Reading those blogs and posts didn't do much for me anyways.

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  13. I have only been in one relationship with a White guy and it didn't work out due to differences in opinion and beliefs. We clashed on issues regarding race and he felt that I always talking about race and was obsessed with it. And I don't necessarily see how I was ''obsessed'' with racial issues when I am affected by it everyday, being a young, Black woman. Other than that, I found myself relating to him on an emotional, personal, sexual and mental level and we shared the same musical tastes in Rock. And I feel in love for the first time in my life.

    That being said, I don't consider myself a ''sex toy'' for Whites however I do prefer mostly White American, European and Hispanic men along with East Indian men. And that is my preference. I can't see myself dating inside of my race because I have been put down more so by Black American men than any other group of men out there. I didn't even experience such disdain from men in my own culture and I am of Jamaican descent. Plus my musical tastes, my likes and interests aren't something that an average Black American man would be interested in anyways. And I can't relate to them culturally, emotionally nor am I attracted to them physically.

    So I don't see any reason to pursue, date, marry or even procreate with a Black American man.

    However, this was an insightful article into a man who truly wants unity in the Black race and wants the Black race to progress. Honestly, I do want my race to progress economically, politically. I want our race to start going to college, getting degrees and start having the skills needed to compete in the global market for jobs and resources. And start building up our communities and electing REAL leaders to lead communities, not opportunists like Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson. And start building functioning communities where Black women and children are protected and have a safety net to fall back on on things get tough.

    I am going to college this upcoming month to better myself and contribute to society but does preferring to mate interracially deter my chances and wishes to better myself and race in society?

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    1. 'Coco'...

      Regarding the Black Diaspora's need to go to college and get themselves educated, understand, I'm ALL FOR THAT; but I also understand, that the majority of Black people winding up oversexed and alone at fifty, tend to be college-educated Black folks. And here's why...

      With the Black collegiate's closer proximity to white people, and their advanced degrees, they think that they'll have no problem finding a white man or woman to marry; but here's the truth, the overwhelming majority of white men and women, or non-Black people period, see us as nothing but instruments for easy sex..that's it. Now, are their exceptions to this rule, yes, problem is they are truly FEW AND FAR BETWEEN!

      Now, the reason you were broke up with your white beau over 'race' issues, is one hint about your attraction(s) to non-Black men being conditioned into you...THIS WAS NOT SOMETHING YOU WERE BORN WITH...AND NONE OF US ARE! Understand, ever since you've started walking you've been taught everything good, righteous and morally upstanding was white, and everything negative was Black. I know this because I was taught the same thing, and I still struggle with this, even though I'm working at the sub-conscious level to change these 'feelings'. So when you see injustices involving your people, naturally, you want to talk about it with someone close to you...like your boyfriend. Problem is, for him to acknowledge the pains of what our people go through, he's got to embrace the wicked acts of his people against ours, and you're not gonna' find a white guy who's willing to acknowledge how his people really are.

      Now, in regards to cultural or musical differences you say you have with Black men, I can definitely empathize with you; 'cause even though I'm old-school, I was the Black guy listening to bands like Metallica, Soundgarden, Alice in chains, Bad Brains, etc. So, I know what it's like to be the odd person out amongst our people. Good news is, I found a coterie of Black friends who liked the same music I did...so trust me, those Black men are out there, I was and am one of them.

      So, I've said all that to say this, the reason I wrote this post was to tell our people that even if you endeavor to date outside our Diaspora, DON'T LET YOURSELF GET ABUSED BY NON-BLACK MEN AND WOMEN...'CAUSE BY AND LARGE, THAT'S WHAT'S HAPPENING! ESPECIALLY TO OUR COLLEGE EDUCATED BROTHAS AND SISTAS!

      Now Coco, you know I'm a Black Nationalist, so I'd prefer you to be with a Black man; but if you're gonna' date non-Black men, what I'd say to you is this, set some definite boundaries for these non-Black men you date. If you want to be in a long-term relationship, either say that up front, or give your dating experience with this man a time limit. After four to six months, if you want him to commit to a relationship, TELL HIM SO! And if he won't, MOVE ON!!

      What I don't want to continue to see, is our brothas and sistas winding up being wet wipes for the pleasure of non-Black folks, period.

      Now, my question to you is, if you did meet a 'good' Black man, would you give him a chance? Or would you shove him aside to pursue another non-Black man? One thing I can say about us is, we'll have no problem conversing with you about ethnic injustices, or battling social prejudices! That I can guarantee.

      So, I hope this sheds some light on what I was saying in this post, and I hope it helps you in your future dating endeavors!

      Give Black men a chance Coco...you'll be glad ya' did!

      Good luck in college!

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  14. MonUHURU...Am So Appreciative To Have Stumbled On Your Site..Very Intriguing Perspectives, Backed By Facts And Plenty Of Humor To Match!
    Know My Good Kin That Your Contributions Are Valued..Thanks For Sharing The Skeletal Key (Meditation) To The Door Of Transcendence..

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