The virtues of segregation (Part 4)...What do Floyd Mayweather and the Black Wall Street have in common?

Floyd Joy Mayweather Jr., was born on February 24, 1977; and if you're reading this Blog, you should already know he's an undefeated champion prize-fighting boxer. He holds five boxing division world championships and has won eleven world titles in four different weight classes. He's also won 'Ring magazine's', 'Fighter of the year' award twice, and the 'Boxing Writer's Association of America's' 'Fighter of the year' award in 2007.

Mayweather also topped the 'Forbes' and 'Sports Illustrated' lists of the fifty highest paid athletes of 2012 and 2013, and he claimed this title again in 'Forbes' magazine in 2014. He also founded his own boxing promotion company called, 'Mayweather Promotions' in 2007. On top of these accolades, Floyd's currently credited with being the highest paid athlete in the world.

Now recently, in one of my last posts titled, 'Are Black relationships doomed to fail', I showed how Floyd's documentary '30 days in May', produced by Showtime, used Black and white symbolism to reinforce reasons why the Black Diaspora should hate themselves and everyone who looks like them; and how they did this with a very sublime depiction of a teleprompter flashing the word 'hypnosis' in one of this documentary's scenes.

But even more recently, Floyd's junior-middleweight title was taken away after he supposedly failed to pay a $20,000 'sanctioning fee' to the 'World Boxing Association'(WBO), for his last fight against Manny Pacquiao.

What the WBO and the World Boxing Council are saying, is a champion can only hold a world title in one weight division; so 38 year old Mayweather, has to actually pay these scam artists, I mean, organizations, to vacate other weight class titles he's holding, so he can be the current champ exclusively in the junior-middleweight division. Basically, they're penalizing Floyd for being too good at what he does...amongst other things, which I'll get to in a sec'.

The 'Black Wall Street' was an area in Tulsa, Oklahoma, where there were literally scores of Black men who were millionaires behind owning their own businesses. Our people owned movie theaters, hospitals, banks, bus lines, airplanes, and every other kind of enterprise you can think up. This was after the turn of the century before last in the early 1900's. The Black family was very much in tact, and the economics of Black people were strengthened to the point of rivaling, and is some cases, out-performing, the economie(s) of white americans.

Pale-skinned fascists bombed the Black Wall Street in 1921. And if you look up the Black Wall Street in 'wikipedia', it says that the demise of this area came about due to the 'rioting' of Black people.

With this preamble out of the way, let's now get to what Floyd and the Black Wall Street have in common...and that's this: both were and are, TOO BLACK AND TOO STRONG TO EXIST IN THE EYES OF WHITE FASCISTS!

See, white sportscasters and commentators will call Floyd a spend-thrift, they'll call him arrogant, flashy, loud and foul-mouthed, and anything else that's negative to assassinate his character, but what he really is more than all these things, is SMARTER THAN THE AVERAGE ATHLETE!

THAT'S WHY HE'S UNDEFEATED!

If you're a Black man or woman who's over thirty, I'm guessing you can remember them saying some of the same negative things about Muhammad Ali; but what they never say about him is, that just like Floyd, he 'out-smarted' his opponents. And his defensive innovation of the 'rope-a-dope', was proof of this. Think about it, it's almost absurd for a pugilist to 'let' his opponent hit him not only once, but several times. This is what Ali did against the ropes in a defensive posture; he did this so his opponent(s) would wear themselves out. Then, he'd stage his attack.

That's straight-up military science!

And Ali's ingenuity was, and is, the reason he's one of the most revered athletes across generations; or as he put it: “the greatest of ALL times”. Now Floyd also came up with his own ingenious defensive style, that being his 'shoulder roll', or the way he tucks his chin beneath and leads with his shoulder: that's a down right brilliant way of him minimizing his likelihood of being hit. On top of this, his almost psychic ability to know when his opponent will throw a punch, has him undefeated after 48 fights.

Also, Floyd's incredibly rich. And his net worth is valued at nearly half a billion dollars...yes, that's billion with a 'b'. And beyond this fact, what really gets whitey's goat, is Floyd's proving the white man's greatest unspoken fear, that Black men are physically stronger, and better physical fighters than they are.

See, white men will never confess to feeling completely emasculated in the presence of Black men. This is why white cops, holding Black guns, (i.e. the Black phallus...think about it, when's the last time you saw a cop with a 'white' gun?) shoot Black men down indiscriminately and why they get so pissed when Black convicts tell them, “...if you take off your gun and your badge, I'll kick your ass.” And white men/film-writers tackle this very subject in the movie, 'End of Watch'; I wrote a post about this and I'll leave a link for it at the end of this one.

On top of all this, white men have always felt sexually inferior in the presence of Black men. And to everyone out there, I wanna' always emphasize this has nothing to do with penis size, this has to do with a Black man's 'genetic' power to breed white men out of existence and his ability to create every other type of man, while none of them can create one of him. *smiles*

I don't wanna make light of this fact by gloating, but if you're a man who is blessed to have been born into a Black body, understand, despite everything whitey has taught you, I'm here to tell you: YOU WON THE ETHNIC LOTTERY! SO DON'T EVER LET A WHITE MAN, OR ANY OTHER KIND OF MAN, MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A LOSER!!

Moving on...

Now, as I've emphasized ever since I've started this Blog, the point to expounding on all this is not to hate white people, it's to see white fascism for what it is, so the Black Diaspora can get out of the conditioned self-hatred we've been nearly force-fed through living in any white fascist social order.

Now, this would be effortless in a nation, or a nation-state, where Black people lived in an ethnic homogeneity; i.e. segregation. And let me just add, because we don't, our celebrities like Floyd can be penalized by white fascists who can strip him of his title over twenty grand, when his fights generate literally billions of dollars of revenue not only for the network 'Showtime', but for the state of Nevada, period!

And if you're thinking, how is Floyd doing that? Think about the revenue 'Showtime' earns for pay-per-view rights to his fights, and how when he does fight, people from all over the country buy hotel rooms, gas, rental cars, cloths, shoes, food and merchandise in his hometown of Nevada.

Beyond this fact, I also need Black people to understand, that money is NOT power!

And this is a reality because, at anytime when we, the Black Diaspora, have too much of it, whitey's power to devalue it, makes it worthless.

Our true power lies in our UNITY! This will get us access to ANY RESOURCE!

I remember a time several years ago, when the Black Haitian economy was thriving behind it's tourist trade; whitey devalued the Haitian dollar, so the majority of Haitians had wads of money, but couldn't buy any food. So they literally resorted to eating dirt. And I always shake my head at the fact that Haitians coming to america always think they're some how better than Black americans; and how the majority of them treat white people, the same people who have their families starving in their native country, like gold. *smdh*

So, I've said all that to say this, that ALL THE DYSFUNCTION IN THE BLACK DIASPORA IS A DIRECT RESULT OF OUR LIVING IN A WHITE FASCIST SOCIAL ORDER...ALL OF IT!!

And I know Black people love to talk about our 'crabs in a bucket' syndrome, but we need to understand this is a direct result of our being conditioned to hate ourselves more than anyone on this planet through assorted white supremacist mediums like the american educational system, american TV, movies, billboard ads, etc.

Because we have the most genetic power to breed them out of existence and their birth rates are falling below replacement levels, we are PUBLIC ENEMY NUMBER ONE, AND THEY HAVE TO EXTERMINATE EVERY ONE OF US!

Remember, a Black woman, and especially, a Black man living anywhere, is a threat to white people everywhere.

Another aspect of this the Black Diaspora really has to content with, is Black people who don't know, or don't care, that they've been conditioned to hate themselves and every one looking like them.

I explained in my last post about a Black man who I thought was an advocate for our people outing himself as as anglophile, and recently, I looked at this pseudo-Black man's blog and saw how he's found a way to compare Dylan Roof, the pale-skinned degenerate who shot up a Black church prayer meeting, with another Black man who killed several people. What this anglophilic kiss-ass fails to realize, is the system of white fascism in america is what has us not only conditioned to hate ourselves and each other, but is what has us killing each other indiscriminately.

And if you say, can you prove that? Just look at the example of the Black Wall Street, this area was nearly devoid of those types of mass murders, because our people have the ability to leave in harmony with nature, given peaceful and benevolent surroundings we can create for ourselves; and white people clearly don't have this capacity for creating these kinds of living situations.

There was also a Black woman who frequented and commented on my Blog for the better part of a year, who recently told me that the rift between the Black man and woman is irreparable and the campaign to save the Black family is officially dead. This is after spending several days, weeks and hours reading what's on my Blog.

So this Black woman learned absolutely nothing here!

She wasted her time, which would have been better spent pursuing a 'non-Black' man to marry, which is what she really wants, whether she realizes it or not.

So again, if we can see what's been done to us, and is continually being done to us by white fascists/fascism, we can change how we look and feel about ourselves and each other.

'Cause ultimately, only our segregated unity will SAVE US!

HOW MANY MORE ATROCITIES DOES THE BLACK DIASPORA HAVE TO SUFFER, BEFORE WE REALIZE, WE'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO PEACEFULLY CO-EXISTS WITH THESE BEASTS WHO CALL THEMSELVES WHITE PEOPLE?

And let me say also, our revolution won't start with hundreds, thousands or millions of Black folk, it will start with YOU CHANGING YOUR OWN MIND!

And this is the work we must do to heal the rift between the Black man and woman, and to save the Black family!

NOTHING ABOUT THE BLACK DIASPORA'S DYSFUNCTION IS NATURAL FAM!

IT HAS ALL BEEN CONDITIONED INTO US BY WHATEVER WHITE FASCIST SOCIAL ORDER WE'RE LIVING IN!

ALWAYS REMEMBER, THE BLACK DIASPORA'S HAVOC, IS A WHITE SUPREMACIST'S HARMONY!

SO LET'S WORK LIKE HELL TO END OUR HAVOC...AND THE SOONER WE DO THIS, THE BETTER!

SUTEKH!

MontUHURU Mimia

P.S.

If you'd like to read the post I wrote about white cops feeling sexually and physically inferior to Black men, and how that manifests in one particular scene in the movie, 'End of Watch', you can check that out here.

3 ways Jill Scott, and Black women, can attract a 'marriage-minded' Black man...

In 2011, Jill Scott 'tweeted' how she was considering becoming a part of an 'open relationship'. To which 'Chili', formerly of the girl-group, 'TLC', tweeted back: 'Hell naw to open relationships!'

And even Monique, the female comedian/actress, said she was actually in one of these relationships/marriages. And I think we all know how Will and Jada Smith get down after hours; I'll delve into why this trend is happening a little later on.

But back to Jill...

Now, grapevine says Jill's currently single; and she kinda' made this emphatically clear with her appearance on the Arsenio Hall show back in September of 2013. And how she made this clear was by her style of dress.

Gone was the natural hair, the dashiki, the Birkenstocks and the new bohemian/earth mother vibe. She traded all that in to look like some weave headed, 'round-the-way' girl, you can find on any city block. She was wearing what looked like eight-inch heels, a tight skirt and she had her breasts nearly falling out of a button up shirt.

I just shook my head.

I'm hoping she now realizes why I, and so many men, had a crush on her in the first place It's because she didn't look like 'Jenny from the block'. And I think the reason she donned that 'costume' is she thought it was the best way for a single mother to attract a 'marriage-minded' Black man.

So, in case she hasn't found him yet, I'd like to present 3 ways Jill and Black women in general, can attract that marriage-minded or long-term relationship minded Black man that everyone says there's a dearth of.

1^st Way: Ladies...turn your sexuality ALL THE WAY DOWN!

And notice I didn’t say turn your sexuality ‘off’. Now, what I mean when I say turn your sexuality ‘down’ is a truly marriage-minded, or long-term relationship minded Black man, is thinking about having children FIRST AND SEX LAST!

I can hear all the Black women now saying, “Yeah, right.”

To Black women reading this: I'm not saying a marriage-minded Black man is not interested in sex, I'm saying he's probably middle-aged or close to it, so he's had his fill of 'young man's trysts' enough to realize that those women he's had 'flings' with aren't marriage material. See, the reason this man has more than likely made himself emotionally and financially stable, is so he can actually have kids and support them. And more often than not, he doesn't realize this himself. He just knows how he intrinsically wants or needs something more from a woman, than for her to be a 'friend with benefits'.

Now, let me make something emphatically clear...if you're an early 'twenty-something' Black woman who's enjoying going to clubs every weekend, and/or you're just looking to 'get your groove on'...this post isn't for you. Mind you, at your age there's nothing wrong with that, but I'm talking to Black women who are essentially looking for potential husbands. I'm not speaking to Black women, young or old, who are looking for 'Mr. Right now’. 

Ya' see, one thing we need to be when considering someone to date, whether it’s on a long-term basis or not, is HONEST WITH OURSELVES. If we can't do that, we can't be that with anyone else.

Moving on...

The common mistake I see women making when they want to attract a marriage-minded man is how they go into full 'vixen' mode. They put on the shiniest lip gloss, the reddest lip stick, the tightest, shortest skirts and the sheerest tops. And what they wind up attracting is a twenty or thirty-something man with testosterone squirting out his ears, who only wants to be with them for a night. Now don’t get me wrong, a marriage-minded Black man will look at you if you dress this way too; difference is, he's got the ability to look at you and PAST YOU, in search of a woman who looks like she's worthy of a long-term commitment.

Know that you wanna' put away the 'club gear' in favor of something loose and free-flowing. Lengthen your dress, lessen your make-up, lose the spandex, and put away the pumps! The marriage-minded man is looking for a woman who looks good 'naturally'. Trust me, he's already seen the highest heels and the Black woman wearing four blond weaves and he's not impressed.

You want to adopt a some-what 'matronly' look. Now, let me define what I mean when I use the term 'matronly'. I'm not saying you should look disheveled, frumpy or like you just threw on whatever was on your closet's floor; I'm saying in the case of the marriage-minded Black man, he wants to see more of YOU and less of what you bought at a store.

And for those Black women who are worried about attracting a ‘mama’s boy’ behind adopting a more matronly look; first off, more than likely, a mama’s boy isn’t going to be looking for a seriously committed or long-term relationship. If he is, than you’ll be able to distinguish a man from a mama’s boy from his possessions or lack thereof. If he hasn’t got his own place, you know this is a boy you shouldn’t be with…then you can decide how to phase him out of your life.

2^nd Way: Ladies...if you see a Black man who you think might be marriage, or long-term relationship minded, and you want to date him...DON'T TALK TO, TOUCH OR SMILE AT HIM FIRST! LET HIM PURSUE YOU!

The rise of 'feminism' came about in the seventies, spear-headed by Gloria Steinem; who is/was a CIA agent. And basically, the tenets of this philosophy said women should be able to do anything a man can do. AND THEY CAN! But understand, unlike what you'll hear from white supremacist freemasonic frauds, like Steve Harvey, if you adopt the edicts of feminism, and wanna' 'think like a man'…YOU'RE GOING TO ACT LIKE ONE TOO!

AND NO STRAIGHT, MARRIAGE-MINED BLACK MAN, WANTS TO BE WITH AN AGGRESSIVE, HYPER-MASCULINE WOMAN!

And if you're currently a Black feminist, you should understand how feminism was created to get women into the american workforce, so this government could tax their salaries. White fascists couldn't do that, if women were staying at home, being housewives. This movement had nothing to do with female empowerment. ESPECIALLY FOR BLACK WOMEN!

And if you're a Black woman, who needs more proof of this, then you should know how Susan B. Anthony, along with other white women, stated when Frederick Douglass was trying to get the right for Black people to vote, that the Black Diaspora shouldn't get the right to vote before white women did. So white feminism, even before it wasn't called 'feminism', has nothing to do with the liberation of Black people.

I'm speaking on feminism, 'cause with its rise, Black women have been told it's okay to make the 'first move' on a man. And yes, this is socially acceptable, but it's wholly ineffective when you're looking for a man who’s marriage-minded. Let me explain why.

Ladies, if you were to go up to a man, and casually smile at him and say hello, the majority of you would probably feel this is a good way of getting to know, and/or, getting to date this man. But let me tell you what this man is thinking...

The man who sees you smiling at him, automatically thinks, she's good for SEX, BUT NOT A RELATIONSHIP! And this is regardless of ethnicity, 'cause I know some women will think this is only indicative of Black men.

The reason this happens is, a man seeing you randomly walking up to, or smiling and talking to him, automatically thinks you've done this with several other men; possibly that same day or night. And, on a deeper level, in his heart, he feels this is an indication of your being oversexed and from an unstable and abusive household. NOW, THIS MAY NOT BE TRUE...BUT THIS IS WHAT A MAN WILL THINK! And the last impression you want to make on a man, is this one.

So you might be thinking, if I don't talk to, touch or speak to this man first, how's he gonna' know I'm interested?

The best way to show a man this, is to get physically 'closer' to him, and start mirroring his movements. If you're in an office, and this man goes to the break room and gets a cup of coffee, get one yourself. Or, if you're at a social function, and he picks up one of the free beverages, grab one too. If you're sitting next to him, and he crosses his legs, do the same. If he puts his hand under his chin, subtly do this as well. Subtlety is the key! Now, any man with half a brain will pick on this, and start talking to you...THEN YOU'VE GOT HIM! ON YOUR TERMS! 

And the added benefit of this is, because you weren't perceived as making the 'first move', you'll make him feel like he PURSUED YOU! Which automatically makes you more of a prize to him; thus ladies, he’ll cater to more of your wants and needs.

And if this fails ladies…you can try eye contact. Now, I saved this for last because excessive eye contact can defeat your goal. If you're going to look at a man to let him know you find him attractive, do it for a SPLIT SECOND!

Looking at a man for more than this, denotes desperation; which in turn tells him again, that you may not be very selective about which kind of man you're attracted to. A three second look, can quickly turn into a stare.

And remember, I'm not writing this post for the Black woman who wants to 'casually date'; again, this is for a Black woman wanting a marriage-minded Black man, FOR REAL!

3^rd Way: Ladies...LOSE THE ADORNMENTS!

Are you a Black woman who wears highlights in her hair? Or did you dye your short, natural hair, peroxide blond? Do you have a tongue, nipple and navel piercings? Or are you thinking about getting one or more tattoos?

Remember, in the case of attracting a marriage-minded Black man; every one of these, is a red flag.

Now, is there anything wrong with wearing tattoos and twelve earrings in each lobe? Of course not. But understand, excessive amounts of trinkets on a woman's body says to a marriage-minded man, that you’re probably materialistic and/or oversexed…especially in the case of tattoos.

When a man looks at a tattoo on a woman's body, no matter how well it's designed, all he sees is: Bob, Ted, James, Rick, George, Barron and Debra were here.

Again, is there anything wrong with wearing tattoos, of course not; but the woman trying to attract a marriage-minded Black man, has to begin thinking differently. Meaning, if you already have a tattoo, DONT' GET ANOTHER ONE! Take the twelve extra earrings out of each lobe and don't wear a ring on each finger. Like I've said before, the marriage-minded man wants to see more of YOU in a natural state.

Now that we've gotten those out of the way, let’s discuss two questions Black women must ask themselves, if they’re really serious about attracting this type of Black man.

Question 1: Do you know who you're attracting and who you're attracted to?

Now, in a previous post, I had this as a title, and it pertained more to every ethnic group; and it always will in terms of knowing what to personally expect in terms of dating. But in the case of Black women and men, this is an especially pertinent question, here's why...

Because Black men and women have the most genetic power to breed whites out of existence, we've been taught to hate ourselves and each other by white fascists, more than any other ethnic group on this planet. Now, you might be thinking, aw, that's hyperbolic non-sense. But every Black person needs to understand why the american school system, taught us our history was comprised solely of slavery and Martin Luthter King.

Now, let's take a look at MLK; a non-violent pacifist for Black human rights, who died violently. And understand, more than anyone else, white fascists want Black people to adopt the tenets of passive, non-violent resistance, because they fear the retribution that's due to them from our diaspora. Trust me, they know they've committed the world's greatest atrocities, and still do, to our people.

In the case of slavery, we’re mandated to learn this, as a method of imbuing america's Black Diaspora with insanely high amounts of shame. 

And what this did to us in pre, middle and high school, is reinforce reasons why we should hate ourselves for being Black. I remember telling a friend of mine, how a Black 'conscious' community's debate, nearly ended in fisticuffs. My friend promptly said, oh well, you know Black people sold each other into slavery...basically implying that we're just predisposed to hurt and hate each other. I had to tell him that whites sold each other into slavery too; I also had to tell him that the very word 'slave' comes from the 'Slavic' people, and how 'Yugoslavia' was named for its white slaves.

So beyond the fact that we each have to remember what kind of household we came from, because, if you come from an unstable and abusive household, you're gonna' be attracting and attracted to, people from unstable and abusive households; we have to come to terms with the fact that damn near every facet of the american social order, is socially engineered to keep the Black man and woman apart.

Don't believe me? All you gotta' do is look at the latest TV shows, movies and commercials. When's the last time you saw a TV show or movie about a Black man and woman who genuinely loved and cared about each other? Every time I turn on the TV, I see a Black man paired with a white woman, or a Black woman paired with a white man.

Which leads me to the second question...and Black women...this is the most important question, and point, of this whole post...

Question 2: ARE YOU A BLACK WOMAN WHO'S CONDITIONED TO HATE BLACK MEN?

This is THE MOST important question any Black woman who's trying to attract a marriage-minded Black man, HAS to ask herself!

And I need every Black woman reading this to be completely honest with herself; 'cause this will determine whether you’ll have a real chance at being with a marriage-minded Black man, if you indeed want to be with one in the first place.

Did you grow up in a single-mother headed household where all you heard about Black men was, they're NO DAMN GOOD! Do you have a good relationship with your father? Was he in your life the majority of the time? Did you see a lot of Black men mistreat your mother?

Understand, if you're a Black woman who consciously or subconsciously hates Black men, then it's CHECK AND MATE...THE GAME'S OVER! In terms of finding or being with a marriage-minded Black man.

Also know, that the reason Jill Scott, Monique, and Will and Jada Smith are extolling the virtues of ‘open relationships’, is for two distinct reasons. One, they’re all white supremacist freemasons, who’ve been tasked to do this by their masters, to keep their celebrity status; and two, white fascists know, ‘open-relationhips’ are DOOMED RELATIONSHIPS! 

So Black men and women adopting this ‘trend’, would be kept out of traditional, monogamous, and potentially successful relationships; thus, we can be more separated than we already are. This is what I mean by every facet of the american social order being geared towards keeping the Black man from the Black woman.

But if you're a Black woman who’s still thinking: isn't every Black father just naturally absent from the home? Know, mine’s wasn't. And to expound on this point, I remember a Black woman asking Eddie Levert, the famous singer from the group, 'The O'jay's', why can't Black men stay with their families?

Now, what this woman didn't realize is, not only how white fascist social engineering played every part of separating the Black man and woman, but how it ultimately destroyed the Black ‘nuclear’ family; at least in america. And here's just one example...

The 'Black Wall Street', was an area in Tulsa, Oklahoma, where several Black men were millionaires behind owning banks, hospitals, retail stores, bus lines, airplanes, etc. And this was during the turn of the twentieth century. Under segregation, this area and areas like it fostered a cohesion between Black men and women, and the Black nuclear family was very much intact.

Problem is, white fascists thought Black people and their dollars were getting too powerful, and in 1921, they bombed the Black Wall Street.

But these fascists weren't stupid; they thought, if we keep these people segregated, they're just gonna' build back up their businesses, and we'll have to destroy these areas continually. So they wondered how they could get these Black dollars into their pockets, and keep them there more easily.

Enter 'integration' and Martin Luther King jr...

Now, these same white fascists understood how they'd conditioned us to love them and hate ourselves in the slave trade, so they knew we'd jump at the chance to just sit next to one of them. And with that negro preacher MLK at the helm, co-signing this, it was sure to be a hit with Black folks.

And it worked!

Black people gladly walked away from areas like the Black Wall Street, thinking we'd have more opportunity with our closer proximity to whites.

Now, whitey understood when we left our businesses, we'd be destitute and dependent on him.

If you've ever read the 'Willie Lynch Letter', and if you don't know what that is, google it; the main tenet of it is, that white fascists had to separate the Black woman from the Black man. So what these fascist-run institutions did was, knowing we'd be hard pressed for money, they gave Black women the government subsidies they'd need to survive...there was just one stipulation; THEY HAD TO GET RID OF THE BLACK MAN, TO QUALIFY FOR THEM!

And while the Black woman was kept dependent on this white fascist government, the Black man was kept destitute and was stereotyped as a criminal. This drove a wedge between us that exists, and has deepened, to this day.

So you see, integration was a trick played on the Black Diaspora…point blank, period.

Now, in conjunction with the american education that teaches us to hate ourselves and each other, is it any wonder that it’s so hard for Black men and women to form loving relationships?

So again, if you're a Black woman reading this, the question still stands: are you conditioned to hate Black men?

And how would you know if you are?

What would be helpful in finding this out is talking to a friend or relative who's seen you around Black men you've dated. Ask them candidly, did I look like I held any grudge or animosity towards them? Did I, or do I, act short-tempered around Black men?

Asking this of a Black male relative, who's seen you with a Black man you were dating, can be especially helpful; one you can trust to be truthful with you. Also, if you have a non-Black woman-friend, this person might have the ability to be a bit more objective, than the average Black person who's been conditioned with the same biases that’ve been bred into the Black Diaspora.

Let me also say this, I fancy myself a ‘Black Nationalist’; and my particular stripe of Black Nationalism deals with our being ‘hyper-self-aware’; especially pertaining to what’s going on in our subconscious minds. It’s why in my past posts, I talk about meditative techniques to recondition ourselves out of the white supremacist induced self-hatred, that’s practically force-fed into us, in the guise of an american education.

So dating for us, isn’t just about dating; it’s about realizing what’s been done to us, so Black men and women can see each other in a different light. And by acknowledging this, hopefully, it’ll kill off the bias of self-loathing that keeps us from loving ourselves and each other.

All my life, I’ve heard Black people say, we don’t stick together, and we don’t like working together; so with the aforementioned explanation of what’s been done to us; I hope any Black person reading this, now knows why.

Now, if you're a Black man reading this who considers himself marriage-minded, I've got a question for you: are you conditioned to hate Black women?

What I'm trying to get across, ad nauseum at this point, is...BOTH BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN HAVE GOTTEN PLAYED!!

While we stay spittin' mad at each other, and wonder why there's so much dysfunction in our ethnic group, we have no idea how the head inbreds I call white fascists, have completely taught us to hate ourselves and each other.

Now, here's the real, real question to Black men and women reading this: if you have got the message of what whites have done to us, and why it's so hard for us to form loving relationships, ARE YOU WILLING TO DO THE WORK TO CHANGE?

See, some of us already know this, but just don't care. We're so comfortable in our conditioned self-hatred, that the overwhelming majority of us will go to our graves hating ourselves and everyone who looks like us.

So, I hope the majority of Black men and women reading this, will do the work necessary to rid themselves of our conditioned self-hatred. And whether you do this by meditating, chanting, positive visualization, etc. doesn't matter. 

Do what works best for you!

Now, I hope I've given Black men and women reading this some real food for thought. And I'm hoping this post gives every Black man or woman reading it a clue as to why you might have, or still now, feel negative about yourself and your people. 

And just knowing this, can help Black men and women see ourselves in a different light; so maybe it won't be such an ordeal for us to find that 'marriage-minded' Black man...or woman.

Later...

MontUHURU Mimia

P.S.

If you'd like to read the first post I wrote on Jill Scott, you can do that here.

Do I hate white people?

About a year ago, a friend of mine and I were driving to see one of his good acquaintances. Once we got to the guy's residence, my friend made a point to tell me, pretty emphatically, that his friend was white. 

I responded by telling him, it wasn't a problem, being that I'm comfortable in mixed company. Besides this fact, I've worked with a good amount of these people for the overwhelming majority of my life. Now, I understand how I can sound when I speak on the machinations of white supremacy, but I didn't know I came off as that intolerant around him. So, I wanted to address this issue here. 

And, like I've said in previous posts, there's been an upswing of activity on my Tommy Sotomayor threads, and I don't know what this is attributable to; maybe Uncle Tom has a new white woman friend he's trying to show off or something. But there was a woman recently who left a comment on my post: 'Why I no longer listen to Tommy Sotomayor', who said my rants about white people are just as bad as how Uncle Tom talks about Black women. I told this woman why that was non-sense; but once again, I'd like to expound on how I talk about whites on this blog. 

Now, for the Black men and women reading this Blog, frequently or infrequently, I'd like everyone of you to know, that I'm not sitting in some small room, 24 hours a day, obsessing over how much I hate Uncle Tom or white people. I do have a life.

And I want to state this emphatically, I am NOT going around hitting whites over the head with a hammer...lol! And I am not encouraging any Black person reading this to either. My intention with these posts, and my Blog, isn't to 'radicalize' people into physical violence against whites; I am trying to give you a different perspective on the dysfunction in the Black Diaspora, for purposes of us coming out of our conditioned self-hatred. 

I'd also like to say, I can get along with any INDIVIDUAL! And this includes white people. What I'm commenting on here, is the collective 1% of white fascists who are essentially out to exterminate Black people. The other 99% of whites, really don't have a clue as to how these fascists operate, although, they should know how they benefit from white fascism. I'd also like to add, endeavoring to hate anyone, will ultimately wind up in a 'self-hatred'. And the last thing Black people need more of, is that.

I'd also like to say, the reason I probably come off as harshly as I do towards whites, is 'cause I've not only seen how this white supremacist sickness, has affected my mind and the mind of my people; but I've also seen how its affected my own 'nuclear' family. 

My father was severely affected by the disease of white supremacy; and it resulted in creating a deep schism amongst us. 

Now, what we usually hear about the Black 'nuclear' family, is how young Black men and women are raised in fatherless, single mother headed households. I didn't have that experience. My father was always present in my life and was very hard-working. I'd seen him work two, and sometimes, three jobs at a time. And one of my earliest childhood memories, was looking in my kitchen's refrigerator, and seeing it completely stocked with food. So much so, that it seemed nothing else could fit. I never went to bed hungry and I never had to worry about the lights being cut off, or enduring winters with no heat. I'd heard about those things, but I'd never encountered them personally. I spent my grade school years in a catholic school, and my high school years in a specialized arts school. So my parents provided me with a very good education; my mother especially, wanted to make sure I read well, because she encountered too many Black men that couldn't. 

So for all intents and purposes, we were a very financially stable, and functioning Black family. With one exception.

I remember my father telling me, one of his earliest childhood memories, was of being yanked to the ground, and out of the way of white people walking towards him, on the same side of the street. His mother did this to him. Because in mississippi, where my father was born, back in the day, if you unintentionally bumped into a white person, the consequences could be deadly. An example of this might be the Emmett Till story; even though young Emmett whistled at a white woman, and was brutally murdered for this. And if you don't know who this young brotha was, google him. But the environment my father grew up in, was so extremely hostile to Black people, that whenever you were in the proximity of whites, you were almost literally, walking on egg shells to make sure they were comfortable with you. Now, given this environment, coupled with the american educational system's curriculum, that's specifically designed to make Black people hate themselves and each other, my father almost had no psychic defense against the force-fed self-loathing he'd been indoctrinated into, for being born a Black man. 

As a result of growing up in such a hostile environment, my father had a life-long indignation towards whites. But there was a flip side to his indignation; you see, consciously, he had this animosity towards white people...which I have to admit, I picked up on a little, lol. But subconsciously, my father had been made to love white people, just as much, or possibly more, than he loved himself. Now, I do have a brother. And my brother is darker-skinned than I am. Behind this, and my father's subconscious conditioning, he doted on me because I was lighter-skinned, and shunned him. And I really don't know, if my father realized why he was doing this. But it resulted not only in my brother's home-life being made very unstable, but it created a deep schism between my brother and I, that exists to this day.

This destroyed our relationship, and I don't think that will ever be resolved. 

Now, to top this off, I see not only what this white supremacist school system has done to my father's mind, but my own and the minds of my people. Black people have been so conditioned to hate ourselves and each other, that Black men and women now-a-days, can barely form loving relationships anymore. Back in my father's day, there was still a cohesion between Black men and women. That's also been totally destroyed by these fascist, pale-skinned degenerates. 

So, I hope this sheds some light on why I'm hard on whitey. 

And this should also explain, how my views against white fascists were formulated; so you can understand, how my gripe with white supremacists isn't business, it's personal. 

Now, armed with this information, the readers of this Blog, can decide for themselves, whether or not they want to stick around for what I'll be posting here in the future. 

And understand, I'm fully aware that this blog could be three times as popular, if I'd adopt an 'ethnically neutral' or 'multicultural' stance. 

If I really wanted to 'hustle' on this blog, I'd tout myself as a Black male christian, and post bible verses about prosperity; and talk about how we're all the same under the skin...and all that non-sense. 

And I'd say to any white, spanish, asian or american indian person who visits this blog, and is offended by something I say about them, that you should find another blog to visit. 

THIS MESSAGE IS NOT FOR YOU! 

And quite frankly, I'd prefer you didn't come back. 

And to the Black men and women looking at my Blog, I'd say, stay tuned. If for no other reason, than I'm in the intermediate phases of curating this blog, and I've got some very interesting projects coming up in the future; and this includes a full length novel I've been working on, which is almost finished.  

And one last thing, seeing how my father was mentally conflicted about his relationship with whites, is why I continuously stress, that Black people need to recondition themselves out of our self-hatred, at the 'sub-conscious' level(s). 'Cause that's what's truly running the whole of our bodies and minds. 

And ultimately, this is the only thing, that will truly set us free.

Later...

MontUHURU Mimia